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“It Didn’t Fill My Cup”: Parker McCollum Says Achieving All His Country Music Dreams Didn’t Fulfill Him Like He Thought It Would
Being a successful touring musician who sells out shows all over the country isn’t exactly what people may think… at least in some ways.
This week, Parker McCollum appeared on Tracy Lawrence’s TL’s Road House podcast, where he talked about coming up in Texas, his career thus far, and Tracy asked him a very insightful question in pondering what has turned out to be different than what he thought it would be when what he’s doing now was all still a dream.
McCollum had a quick response, saying it’s something he’s thought about a lot… he explained simply that “it didn’t fill my cup quite like I thought it was going to.” He went onto explain that he’s been fortunate to do everything he ever wanted in terms of a country music career because he’s played his dream venues, signed a record deal and had chart-topping hits, but it still wasn’t the answer to all of his problems.
It’s a problem that isn’t necessarily unique to country music stars and celebrities, but a lot of people think they’ll be completely satisfied in all aspects of their life once they achieve this or that, or even buy this or that, find the right person, get married, get the next promotion, buy that new house, that new car… insert whatever milestone or accomplishment, but at the end of the day, it just can’t bring you joy if you don’t have the other deeper stuff ironed out.
Parker explains:
“Man, what a great question. You know, one that’s probably an easy answer because I think about it so much, but it didn’t fill my cup quite like I thought it was going to. Because I’ve been fortunate, man, everything I dreamed about I’ve got to do, and then some times 100, I should’ve dreamed a lot bigger.
Billy Bob’s in Fort Worth and Rodeo Houston, those two things, you know, I’m good. You know, it all happened relatively quickly, and a lot quicker than I ever anticipated.
When I was younger, I just really thought once I did those things and once I had number one song at country radio, and major record deal, all the stuff of a country music career, I thought it was gonna fill my cup.”
He explained that his song “Big Ole Fancy House” sort of touches on that concept. You get all the material things, and even accolades and achievement, but that is truly never enough to satisfy anyone no matter what it is or who you are. In the case of the song, it’s just a big house full of “stuff,” and he is still alone:
“I thought that’s what was gonna make it all okay, and it’s just not the reality of it. I wrote a song, it’s on that deluxe thing that came out, ‘Big Ole Fancy House,’ that’s kind of what it’s about man. You know you get everything you ever wanted…”
And he’s right, the song is a perfect depiction of that, as he perfectly portrays a slightly tormented soul wrestling with the idea that all the material things in his “Big Ole Fancy House” mean nothing without the love of his life living with him, and that’s hurting him more than the breakup itself.
“Well, I thought you would be the one to kill me
Guess it’s true, I can’t live with the memory
What do I do? I thought that I could live without you, and I lied
Yeah, this big ole empty house is just eating me alive…”
Tracy talked about how satisfying dreams can bring a lot of joy, but true joy comes from getting your faith right, your priorities right and surrounding yourself with the right people, which McCollum agreed with. Amen to that… there’s nothing that will “fill your cup” more than faith and family.
It’s super interesting to hear someone like Parker, who seemingly has it all, admit that even with all he’s accomplished, it hasn’t made him completely happy and content, and I think that’s the kind of lesson we can all learn from:
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“Big Old Fancy House”
The full podcast episode is available below.
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