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“No Whining On The Yacht”: Lainey Wilson Reveals The Blunt Advice Keith Urban Gave Her When She Told Him She Was Tired From Touring
Lainey Wilson is currently touring over in Australia, and she stopped by the No Filter podcast with Kate Langbroek, where she spoke about her life growing up in Louisiana, her time grinding in Nashville before she ever had a record deal or any fame or notoriety, and show she still strives to maintain some sort of normalcy in this crazy world she finds herself navigating now.
The famous story goes that Lainey lived in a camper trailer for her first three years in town, which she’s talked about that a lot before, but her grandfather had helped out a friend in the 70’s with moving to Music City, and eventually, he wanted to return the favor and allowed Lainey to park the camper on his studio lot for several years while she started her career.
She spent many years as a struggling writer, building connections and remaining hopeful that it would eventually work out, and her faith and determination proved to be a winning strategy because she sells out venues all over the world now and has become a household name.
Lainey has spoken plenty about mentors she has leaned on for advice since coming into this fame and success, which includes her close friend Miranda Lambert, Lainey explained that she is “20 music and 80% business,” which has helped her a lot in terms of advice:
“She has been somebody that I can call, and she just, like, tells you like it is. And she’s one of the people who told me, she’s like, ‘It’s 20% music and 80% business.’ And, so, once I started hearing that kind of stuff and just picking up on random wisdom that so many artists have been willing to share with me, I write it down in a little section of my phone.”
But when asked about Keith Urban’s advice, he had a more straightforward approach, telling Lainey there’s “no whining on the yacht” when she had told him how tired she was after doing 180-something shows in a year (which is an insane number, by the way…
“Well, there’s been a few. He told me it’s better to maintain balance than to always be achieving it. To me, that means figure out what works for you. Have work-life balance and don’t lose that. Because once you do, and you’re kinda lopsided, then, like, it’s hard to get back.
I ran into him, and I was so tired, I had been on the road, I think we played 180-something shows that year. And I saw him, I was just like, ‘I’m tired.’ And he was like, ‘No whining on the yacht.’ And I was like, ‘Keith, you better get up out of my face with that.'”
I mean… what a line, and clearly, it’s stuck with Lainey and probably something we’ve all needed to hear at one point or another because it’s easy to lose sight of the good things in life when you’re just plumb wore out.
Lainey had gone onto win the coveted Entertainer of the Year award at the 2025 CMA Awards twice, in addition to many other awards, and she says that little 9-yea-old girl that used to watch the show would be overjoyed with how it’s all worked out for her:
“I just remember being a little girl watching all these awards thinking, ‘Man, it’d be really cool if I could be down there in the mix with those people.’ Because I felt like I was one of them. It was one of those moments for me where I’m like, ‘OK, this industry that I have been working on my relationships for 15 years now, these people have come to bat for me.
And now, people like Keith Urban and all the other people in between that I’ve met – when your peers and the people that you look up to are proud for you and voting for you. It makes you feel like, ‘OK, like that little 9-year-old girl wasn’t that crazy.'”
It’s such a beautiful success story, and Lainey has certainly earned every bit of it… and she’s proof that even super-humans like her get tired every now and then too:
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The full podcast is available below.
Lainey Wilson 2025 Tour Dates:
February 26—Perth, Australia—RAC Center*
March 20—Thackerville, OK—WinStar World Casino & Resort
March 21—Thackerville, OK—WinStar World Casino & Resort
April 10—Florence, AZ—Country Thunder Arizona
April 11—Laughlin, NV—Laughlin Event Center
April 25—Indio, CA—Stagecoach Festival 2026
July 10—Chicago, IL—Windy City Smokeout
August 6—Detroit Lakes, MN—WE Fest
August 7—Oshkosh, WI—Xroads41
August 9—Canton, OH—Concert for Legends
August 12—Sturgis, SD—The Sturgis Buffalo Chip
August 15—Springfield, IL—Illinois State Fair
* with special guests Flatland Cavalry and Kaitlin ButtsThe post “No Whining On The Yacht”: Lainey Wilson Reveals The Blunt Advice Keith Urban Gave Her When She Told Him She Was Tired From Touring first appeared on Whiskey Riff.