She talked about how people think she shouldn’t do certain things, Jelly still best friend Jelly Roll, whose real name is Jason DeFord, filed for divorce from his wife Bunnie Xo, whose real name is Alisa DeFord, back on May 18 in Williamson County Chancery Court, just outside of Nashville. And in the wake of the announcement, Bunnie released a tell-all episode of her Dumb Blonde podcast (which has since been removed from her Youtube page), where she revealed a lot of why they decided to split, addressed dating rumors and revealed that Jelly was already dating, and she also explained the straw that broke the camels back, so to speak, that led to the divorce papers being filed, which Jelly did after a huge fight they had on Mother’s Day. She encouraged fans watching her podcast to slide into her soon-to-be husband’s DMs, and she said that she was ready to get back out there, though she also said she wanted to take some time for herself, in addition to later revealing some of the messages that have been sent to her on Instagram… I can only imagine what her DMs look like right now. But it seems like someone caught her eye, as Bunnie was out at Jelly Roll’s own bar on Broadway in Nashville, Jelly Roll’s Goodnight Nashville, with a new man. TMZ shared video of her making out with 24-year-old Dylan Wolf (Bunnie is 46), who is apparently a star on the new Netflix reality show “Calabasas Confidential.” I think they use the word star pretty loosely, but whatever… It apparently happened on the Fourth of July, as Bunnie and Dylan were hanging out int he VIP section on the rooftop bar, and you can see them talking and kissing in the video below: View this post on Instagram And of course, because there’s been so much attention on this viral video, and Dylan is milking it for all it’s worth. He’s posted a few videos hinting at their weekend since the video came out, including one where he specifically addressed the video of him and Bunnie, which is more just a video to promote whatever “brand” he’s trying to shill to her followers. He also said that sometimes a cowboy just likes to “hunt cougars and rabbits”: “What’s going on guys? Wanted to come on here on a serious note and address everything that’s’ been going on recently. There’s been quite a bit of speculation and a few headlines that have surfaced the last several days, specifically Fourth of July weekend in Nashville when I was out spotted with Bunnie, and I thought it was only fair to you guys to address the elephant in the room. And that is, Dylan, where did you get that hat? I’m super glad you guys have asked, because it’s my brand, Country Club. Website link in bio… shoutout to Bunnie, podcast drops on Thursday at midnight.” @dylannwolf @Bunnie Xo likes the merch and so should you #fyp #bunniexo ♬ On a Mission – Duomo And Bunnie dropped a podcast episode where she talked about the weekend, saying she has “never” lied to her fans, and she told them she was going to have a “hot girl summer,” so they shouldn’t be surprised: “That’s the thing, that’s another thing. Can we talk about this, because I never lie to you guys. I tell you guys, hey, it’s about to be a hot girl summer. If you see me outside half naked, no you didn’t. I’ve literally said that, you know. Anybody that really knows me, and that really pays attention to the pod, is like, she said she was gonna do this. Granted, would I have done it as public as I did it? No, okay, that was a lesson learned. Can your girl get a sweet little kiss under the fireworks? I’ve never had that done, I thought it was so sweet… just let your girl live. Let her just live a tiny bit. I’m not dating anyone, I don’t wanna date anyone. I am here for fun, baby. I am having fun. I learned a lot of lessons this week, and I’m gonna take it on the chin, because I did this and I take full accountability for it. But that’s all it was. There was a huge group of us out, I wasn’t out on a date. I wasn’t on a f***** date. You know, there was 20 of us, it was Jaime‘s birthday, it was Fourth of July, I had never been to downtown Nashville for Fourth of July… It was so great, and it was because everybody that was there was just a great human. Everybody. And like everybody got along. Even my security guard was best friends with everybody.” They were hanging out at Jelly’s, bar which Bunnie has a floor inside of, and she said they went there because she knows everyone that works there and that’s where she feels safe, and that part makes sense, but still… it’s pretty funny they were at her ex’s bar: “The headlines are like, it was at Jelly Roll’s bar, and it’s like, I also have a floor there. I also feel very safe there. I also feel very protected there. That’s that’s our home. If I’m gonna land at any bar, I’m gonna do it at Goodnight Nashville.” Bunnie also explained that Jelly was totally fine with it, and she just wishes she could move on and do what she wants without being recorded or used for clicks and headlines: “But you know, J was like, he gets it. Not an issue at all. What the issue is where you’re trying to just move on from your life, and people are videoing you for clout. Let’s really talk about that. And I get it, everybody wants to break a story or earn some clout. But it’s like, you’re literally videoing a woman who’s trying to move on with her life and has been through hell this entire f******* year. And it’s like, you couldn’t just for one second, let her just have a moment. It had to be sneaky recorded… and I’m not mad, I know who did it, and I’m not mad at the girls who did it. but it’s just like, at the same time, it’s like really, come on dude.” She also said that she wasn’t trying to hide anything, and it wasn’t some secret, which is why she was out on the rooftop with tons of other people around. Though she thinks going forward she will keep things much more private, even though she simply wants to feel normal: “There was 5000 people around us, I’m literally living my life out loud. And I’m not trying to hide anything. I mean, that’s what a lot of celebrities do, and honestly, after this week I’ve learned that I cannot do anything out in public like that. And it’s sad, because that’s who I am. I yearn for a sense of normalcy. I don’t think it’s just set in, and I don’t think people care about me as much as they do. I will move forward with a lot more integrity and class. I just wanna have fun. I’m just here living my best life… I’m so happy, and I’m so free, and I want to wash my hands and put that chapter behind us. I don’t wanna have to be referred to as somebody’s ex for the rest of my life, because I have worked so hard to build my brand to be separate from that person anyways. And  am so thankful for the time that we had together and the f****** s*** that we built together, but let that man live his life, also, while I’m living mine. I don’t need to be somebody’s ex in every headline. And it’s really not tea, like, I get you know you guys are talking to people and you guys get these sources that don’t know what they’re even f****** talking about, but I will always come here on this microphone and tell you the truth. Because I don’t wanna hide anything.” I feel like people do think of her as her own entity, she has a very successful podcast and has done well for herself. And she doesn’t regret anything from the weekend, saying she’s “healing out loud” and hopes to have many more Fourth of July’s like this past one: “And do I regret this past weekend? Absolutely the f*** not. I had fun. I am healing out loud. So what I got kissed under the fucking fireworks. I hope I get kissed under fucking 10 more fireworks shows, you know. But I’m not dating anybody, I do not want to be with anybody. There’s an ice box where my heart used to be. Do you guys remember that song? That s*** is chained up, trust me. Nobody’s getting through. I’m working on healing myself, I want to come and go as I please. I might even have a roster. It’s a bad b**** genre.” Lastly, she pleaded with her fans to stop “pinning” her with every guy she references or even talks to, because when she finds someone, she promises to be honest and tell everyone about it, which I definitely believe because Bunnie has never shied away from talking about her personal life, which is what her fans connect with: “But can you guys just please, please, please stop pinning me within every person that you see. Because I will literally tell you, he’s the one, if he’s the one. You guys did it with Daddy Chaddy, the song where I’m lip syncing Eminem’s s***, you guys are like, oh my God, Eminem and Bunnie would make a great couple. Bunnie needs to get with Eminem. And I’m just like, no. I’m like, dude, you’re not pinning this b***** down. Catch me if you can. And if you guys ever have any questions, of course ask me. I will always tell you. And your girl’s just got here having fun living my best life.” I don’t think the public interest in her dating life is going away anytime soon, but it sounds like she learned some lessons and will dating much more privately going forward. The full episode is available below. The post “I Am Healing Out Loud” — Bunnie Xo Says She Was Just “Having Fun” With 24-Year-Old ‘Calabasas Confidential’ Star Dylan Wolf first appeared on Whiskey Riff.