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4 tips for everyday eco-friendly living
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In the face of climate change, many people question the importance of individual actions in ensuring a sustainable future. While institutional change is necessary, environmentalist and author Heather White emphasizes the importance of individual choices. White states that “Individual action drives culture change, and without culture change, global policies and market solutions will not work.” Finding purpose in sustainability: pinpointing your climate “why” White encourages people to establish their “climate ‘why’,” which is a personal reason for embracing sustainability. For her, “being a good ancestor” entails emphasizing justice and environmental care for future generations. This introspective practice helps people relate their values to their actions, which fosters a feeling of purpose in sustainability efforts. Envisioning a better future: visualizing your ideal 2030 White’s approach includes visualizing an ideal future. Individuals can set concrete goals and hopes for change by envisioning a society in which sustainability is prioritized. This exercise enables individuals to advocate for systemic changes and contribute to a more equal and resilient society. Nature as a solution: accepting ecological restoration White offers the idea of nature as a climate solution, emphasizing the importance of healthy ecosystems in carbon sequestration and biodiversity conservation. Individuals can help to improve global climate resilience by preserving and restoring natural areas. Initiatives such as rewilding and native plant gardening provide simple ways to contribute to ecological restoration. Connecting with the natural world: fostering awe and appreciation Amid environmental anxiety, White highlights the necessity of connecting with nature to reduce stress and promote a sense of awe. Spending time outside allows people to enjoy the beauty of nature and be inspired by its resilience. Whether through forest hikes or urban green spaces, interacting with nature may rekindle enthusiasm and purpose in sustainability initiatives.  The post 4 tips for everyday eco-friendly living first appeared on The Optimist Daily: Making Solutions the News.

Cambodia honors the rat who cleared more landmines than anyone
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Cambodia honors the rat who cleared more landmines than anyone

BY THE OPTIMIST DAILY EDITORIAL TEAM Decades after the conflicts that planted them, landmines remain one of the most persistent threats to civilian life in parts of Southeast Asia. In Cambodia alone, more than one million people continue to live and work on land contaminated with mines and unexploded ordnance, according to the United Nations. Removing them is painstaking, dangerous, and slow — unless the right animal is trained for the job. Who Magawa was Magawa was an African giant pouched rat, bred in Tanzania and trained by the Belgian charity Apopo as part of its HeroRATS program. He arrived in Cambodia in 2016 and spent five years in the field, becoming the most successful landmine-sniffing rat Apopo had ever deployed. His record is specific: 100 landmines detected and 1,517,711 square feet (about 35 acres) of land cleared and returned to safe use. He could sweep a field the size of a tennis court in just 20 minutes, a task that would take a person with a metal detector several days. His small size and light weight meant he could cross suspect ground without triggering the devices he was hunting for. In 2020, Magawa became the first rat to receive the UK’s People’s Dispensary for Sick Animals Gold Medal, considered one of the highest honors an animal can receive, awarded for his “life-saving devotion to duty.” He retired and passed away in 2022. The statue and what it represents A bronze statue of Magawa was recently unveiled in Cambodia ahead of the International Day for Mine Awareness, making it the world’s first monument dedicated to a landmine-detecting rat. The timing was not incidental. “A symbol of hope and resilience, the monument makes visible the ongoing impact of landmines and the quiet work of HeroRATs saving lives every day,” Apopo wrote on Instagram. The unveiling was intended both as tribute and as reminder: the landmine crisis in Cambodia is not resolved, and the animals trained to address it are still working. Why rats are so well-suited to the job The HeroRATS program works because African giant pouched rats combine a highly sensitive sense of smell with qualities that most detection methods lack. They are light enough not to detonate pressure-sensitive devices. They can be trained to alert handlers without disturbing what they find. And they cover ground faster than both metal detectors and trained dogs across many field conditions. The program, running in Cambodia and several other mine-affected countries, is one of the more inventive responses to a problem the world inherited from decades of armed conflict. By pairing animal ability with systematic field training, Apopo has restored access to large stretches of land that communities could not safely use before. Magawa is gone, but the rats trained after him continue clearing ground across Cambodia. His statue, in the country where he spent five years working, is a tribute to one animal and a reminder of how much of that work still lies ahead.     Did this solution stand out? Share it with a friend or support our mission by becoming an Emissary.The post Cambodia honors the rat who cleared more landmines than anyone first appeared on The Optimist Daily: Making Solutions the News.

‘Social prescribing’ has doctors writing scripts for nature walks and art classes. It’s working.
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‘Social prescribing’ has doctors writing scripts for nature walks and art classes. It’s working.

The loneliness epidemic has reached a critical mass, with the Surgeon General warning that social isolation can have dire health consequences. Tons of research backs it up: Being lonely can make us sick. For many years, patients have been screened for loneliness and offered only a few limited options: Therapy and medications that treat symptoms of loneliness like insomnia, depression, or heart problems. But recently, doctors have been taking a far more radical approach: What if they actually treated the loneliness itself? “Social prescribing” trend takes off Doctors cant befriend their patients, but more and more they’ve been leaning on a concept called “social prescribing.” It’s a way of treating the whole patient and not just the symptoms. How? By writing prescriptions for things like nature walks, art classes, book clubs, singing lessons, and more. All of these activities are shown to boost mental health, decrease loneliness, and create a domino effect of positive health outcomes. It’s not just loneliness that can be treated by social prescribing. Depression, anxiety, and chronic pain can all benefit from community-based, real-world activities. How social prescribing works A person dealing with loneliness might be asked to take part in a community class, volunteer, or even use a service that helps them make friends. Depression patients might be asked to spend more time in nature through a birdwatching group or nature-walk group They may also be enrolled in art classes. Doctors frequently tell people to exercise more, but social prescribing sees them direct chronic pain patients, for example, to specific group exercise classes. Prescriptions for art classes can really make a difference. Photo Credit: Canva Photos It can be even simpler than that, too. Someone who’s isolated because they’re a caretaker for a family member might be asked to simply go to a coffee shop a few times per week. A person who’s feeling down and disconnected due to remote work might get a social prescription for joining a group or social club. Someone who’s dealing with stress and anxiety related to finances might be assigned to meet with a debt management specialist. How it works from a logistical standpoint depends on the doctor and where you live. In the UK, social prescribing has officially been adopted by the NHS. Patients in need will be referred by their doctor to a “link worker” whose sole job is to connect them to the right community resource. In America, social prescribing is still in more of a fledgling state. Fortunately, though, more and more local pilot programs are popping up around the country to provide the same support. Experts believe that even in the United States’ heavily privatized model, it can still be effective. Social prescribing actually works Going for weekly nature walks to help depression and loneliness is a cute idea, but is it actually effective? A majority of research says Yes. One study found that patients who received a social prescription were less likely to visit their doctor for other consultations or go to the emergency room. Participants showed not only reductions in anxiety and depression, but major boosts to self-confidence, self-esteem, and overall wellbeing. Beyond what’s reflected in the numbers and studies, doctors who practice social prescribing say they’ve seen the impact it can have firsthand. Scientific American writes, “The most memorable gains from social prescribing come through in its before-and-after stories. Whether its patients sharing how social prescriptions have provided a ‘reason to wake up in the morning,’ or doctors sharing how it feels like ‘prescribing beauty in someone’s life,’ social prescribing just feels right.” The practice is not without its critics, though. Some researchers say that the positive gains from social prescribing only last as long as a healthcare worker is facilitating the activities, but fade away quickly when patients are left to their own devices. They argue that the root causes of loneliness, depression, and anxiety run far deeper in our cultures and require more precise intervention. Still, it’s hard to argue with the idea behind social prescribing. Therapy and medications have their place, but human beings have always needed community, connection, and time spent in nature. What’s most surprising about the trend is that it took us this long to give it a try. The post ‘Social prescribing’ has doctors writing scripts for nature walks and art classes. It’s working. appeared first on Upworthy.

Expert shares the ‘5 communication types’ and how understanding them can make relationships easier
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Expert shares the ‘5 communication types’ and how understanding them can make relationships easier

Having a healthy communication style isn’t just about how you speak. It’s how you listen and perceive the other person or people to whom you’re talking. Knowing the strengths (and sometimes more importantly, the weaknesses) they might bring to a conversation can often help produce a better outcome. Licensed therapist Jason VanRuler developed an efficient quiz to help people determine their communication style. After answering a short series of questions, an individual can find out if they lean toward the “peacemaker, the advocate, the harbor, the thinker, or the spark.” Of course, most of us don’t fit neatly into one box or another. To account for that, each archetype (to borrow Carl Jung’s term) is given a number, so one can see how they relate to each style. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Jason VanRuler, Licensed Therapist (@jason.vanruler) Reading the room In an Instagram Reel posted by VanRuler, he explains how essential mere perception can be. “You may think great communication is about saying the right thing, but it’s actually about knowing how to read the room. When something doesn’t land, we often blame the other person for not understanding, instead of asking how our message may not have connected with them. Different people process information differently, and ignoring that creates disconnect.” How to reframe There are ways in which he says a person can reframe. “What to Do About It: Shift your focus from ‘Why didn’t they get it?’ to ‘How can I say this in a way that connects with them?’ Pay attention to how people respond and adjust your approach accordingly. Great communicators don’t just express well, they adapt well.” In the clip, he describes a time when he was giving a conference to a room full of accountants. “So I got up and I talked a lot about feelings, and I went really deep and got really emotional. And it was really, really quiet. And I left thinking, ‘what was wrong with the audience? Why didn’t they resonate with what I just said?’ But what I didn’t really think about is, what is it about what I just said that didn’t resonate with them?” Learning your “style” can help facilitate better relationships through stronger communication. On VanRuler’s website, he explains who he’s attempting to help, writing, “Whether it’s leadership coaching, relationship building, couples therapy, addiction, trauma, or something different, my goal is the same: to speak truth and grace into every life I work with.” The 5 types In a press piece for his new book Discovering Your Communication Type: The 5 Paths to Deeper Connections and Stronger Relationships, VanRuler gives a quick explanation of the strengths of each type. (He refers to what we might call “weaknesses” as “opportunity.” The idea being to ask one’s self, “what opportunity do I have to strengthen my communication style?’ Peacemaker “Strength: Creates peace and eases tension in difficult or trying moments.Opportunity: Can avoid necessary conflict, which delays resolution and repair.” Advocate “Strength: Focused on justice, fairness, and upholding morals; advocates for their beliefs.Opportunity: Can present as intense or overpowering, or advocate when it’s not needed.” Thinker “Strength: Focused on logic, thoughts, facts, and getting things correct.Opportunity: Can miss cues for feelings and appear distant or emotionally unavailable.” Harbor “Strength: Creates a safe space for others to go deep and talk about feelings and emotions.Opportunity: May struggle to express their own needs, communicate boundaries, or be the focal point of a conversation.” Spark “Strength: Brings lots of energy, creativity, and momentum to conversations.Opportunity: Can struggle with consistency and initiating difficult conversations.” He makes it clear that understanding these “paths” is a great start to elevating a relationship, saying, “Each path speaks a different ‘language,’ and the more fluent you become in other styles, the better you can bridge the gap between you and the people you care about.” The post Expert shares the ‘5 communication types’ and how understanding them can make relationships easier appeared first on Upworthy.

Mom turns texts from teenage son into an emo ballad, and it has no right to be this good
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Mom turns texts from teenage son into an emo ballad, and it has no right to be this good

Kids say a lot of hilarious things. It starts when they’re little and are just learning how to talk and string sentences together, and the unintentional comedy continues all the way into the overdramatic and angsty teen years. As parents, we often wish we could remember these little nuggets of gold forever. Now, a new trend is turning teens’ most emotional and unhinged words into unforgettable earworms. One mom turns texts into unbelievably catchy pop-punk song Mandi Mansour, a hairstylist from San Diego, recently posted a Reel on Instagram of herself rocking out in the car while singing along to a song of her own creation. The lyrics? Her own teenager’s frantic and melodramatic text messages. It’s amazing to watch how messages like “Can I get Canes or Taco Bell? I know you said no, but I’m starving,” and “Can I have ten bucks? … Can I have seven dollars?” become such a catchy and convincing song. Of course, old early-2000s emo is the only musical style perfectly suited to capture the frantic angst, and the final product is honestly a banger. (The vocal run during “seven dollars” is absolutely priceless.) A great detail from the video is how Mansour is driving and singing the lyrics without even looking at the screen. She’s clearly listened to her personalized song on repeat dozens of times and can’t seem to get enough of it. View this post on Instagram Video is part of a trend making clever use of an AI music app Mansour’s video isn’t the only one like it, not even close. These “emo songs” have become a huge viral trend over the last couple of weeks, with parents using the AI music app Suno (and similar ones) to turn these “lyrics” into full-blown songs, usually in the pop-punk genre. It’s hard to say exactly where the trend originated, but Marcus Leshock, a reporter for WGN-TV, was one of the early prominent participants. Hundreds of thousands of parents followed suit shortly after. View this post on Instagram Trend has parents asking: “Do we have the same kid?” No matter how many clips you watch, all texts from the teenagers seem to fall into two buckets: wanting food and asking for money. The series is an amazing glimpse inside the mind of the modern American Gen Z or Gen Alpha kid. It’s all Starbucks, açaí bowls, Raising Cane’s chicken—all fast food, really—e-bikes, and, of course, the classic requests for cash. This is one of the first times we have such thoroughly documented evidence of how teens and preteens really think. About 85% of 11- to 13-year-olds have a cell phone capable of texting, with many getting their first phone under the age of 10. Simply put, we’re in the frontier days of kids being able to text directly with their parents at all times. And the results are definitely something these moms and dads will want to remember when their kids are grown and self-sufficient. Thanks to these infectious and unforgettable choruses, they most certainly will. View this post on Instagram Turning texts into emo songs is really the best kind of AI trend. It draws humor from real-life experiences that connect all of us (well, all of us with moody teens), and uses a little assist from the technology to make it memorable and fun. No one’s trying to top the Billboard charts here, but the commonalities between the songs really go to show that none of us are in it alone. Raising a teenager is tough, exhausting work—but it’s bringing parents all over social media a lot of comfort to know the challenges they’re dealing with are extremely common. And those big feelings and dramatic outbursts just so happen to be perfect fodder for the type of songs many of us grew up loving. The post Mom turns texts from teenage son into an emo ballad, and it has no right to be this good appeared first on Upworthy.