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The Lighter Side
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2 yrs

How I Got Hooked on Solutions Journalism
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How I Got Hooked on Solutions Journalism

As part of our winter membership drive‚ we are pulling back the curtain on what we do here at Reasons to be Cheerful. In this story‚ Contributing Editor Michaela Haas shares her perspective on solutions journalism. Want to learn more about our membership program? Click here. At the turn of this century‚ New York Times reporter Tina Rosenberg had uncovered a massive scandal but couldn’t convince her editor to publish her research: The price for HIV medication had soared. Thousands of patients in the Global South were dying because they could not afford the expensive treatment. “What people didn’t know was that the Clinton administration was colluding with the pharma industry to keep the prices artificially inflated‚” the Pulitzer Prize-decorated Rosenberg says. Her editor at the New York Times Magazine agreed that the practice was scandalous but still‚ he was not willing to “print yet another depressing AIDS story!”  Rosenberg didn’t give up. Instead‚ she wrote a feature about a country that defied the pressure‚ produced the life-saving medication in its own labs and distributed it for free‚ effectively halving the death rate: Brazil.   The success of that New York Times cover story‚ “Look at Brazil‚” was phenomenal: The US government changed its policy and the life-saving antiretrovirals became affordable in the global South. “This is exactly the principle‚” Rosenberg said at a conference of the Solutions Journalism Network in Sundance‚ Utah‚ where I first met her: “Instead of just calling out a problem‚ we ask: Who does it better?” Rosenberg suspected that the solutions principle would make sense for other topics‚ too. “The idea is too good to keep it to ourselves‚” her colleague David Bornstein agreed‚ and in 2013‚ they co-founded the New York-based Solutions Journalism Network (SJN)‚ which offers training and support for solutions journalism.  A little over five years ago‚ SJN retweeted a story of mine about finding post-traumatic growth. I had to look up what the network stood for. On its website‚ I read its definition of solutions journalism as “rigorous and compelling reporting about responses to social problems.” I was instantly hooked. It’s an evidence-driven approach that focuses on reproducible‚ effective solutions while not shying away from revealing limitations and shortcomings.  “I honestly don’t think I would still be passionate about my job if I mainly wrote about what’s wrong with the world‚” Haas writes. Credit: Gayle M. Landes Shortly after‚ I began training in solutions journalism‚ started writing a solutions column for the German newspaper Süddeutsche Zeitung and coordinated a local solutions journalism community in Los Angeles before joining Reasons to be Cheerful as contributing editor in the spring of 2021. Reasons to be Cheerful is one of only a handful of publications that exclusively publishes true solutions journalism. As a reader‚ you might have initially come here for the “cheer” in the name‚ and you might not necessarily have heard of solutions journalism. But if you read us‚ you know you won’t find cute kitten videos on our site to cheer you up (though there is nothing cuter than kittens).  Often‚ solutions journalism isn’t exactly “good” news. “Journalists are not interested in making people feel good‚” Bornstein agrees. “In fact‚ when you look at a lot of solutions journalism‚ it’s not designed to make people feel better. It’s almost always stories about people who are performing poorly with problems compared to how they could be performing. It makes negligence egregious because there are other options. We think it is the most powerful way to shift journalism because accountability is our number-one job.” The negativity bias has been well documented‚ including in one of my favorite books‚ the bestseller Factfulness by the late Hans Rosling: Readers believe the world is worse than it actually is. “When asked simple questions about global trends ― what percentage of the world’s population live in poverty; why the world’s population is increasing; how many girls finish school ― we systematically get the answers wrong‚” Rosling and his co-authors find. “So wrong that a chimpanzee choosing answers at random will consistently outguess teachers‚ journalists‚ Nobel laureates‚ and investment bankers.” No matter which pressing problems I think of‚ there are always people‚ communities or institutions who are working to solve them‚ and it is simply good journalism to research them. Solutions journalism fails when it is naïve and pollyanna-ish‚ but it does make me feel better to know that we live in a world where smart people who care are looking for solutions. “If we only ever write about how people fail‚ it’s no surprise they don’t want to read us anymore‚” Bornstein adds. “It makes you feel less helpless to live in a society where people are thinking about doing better.”  Become a sustaining member today! Join the Reasons to be Cheerful community by supporting our nonprofit publication and giving what you can. Join That’s why I’m convinced that solutions journalism is also a solution for the trust crisis in journalism. According to the latest comprehensive Digital News Report by the Reuters Institute‚ only four out of ten news consumers say they trust most news most of the time‚ and more than a third (36 percent) of news consumers say they avoid the news often or sometimes. News avoiders are more likely to say they are interested in solutions-based journalism.  “Journalism suffered an existential crisis along with its economic crisis‚ and solutions journalism is a way of responding to that‚ a way of increasing trust‚” Rosenberg says. “People are assuming that trust is a function of accuracy‚ and we think it’s also a function of people feeling seen and respected by how the media portrays them.”  Studies show that solutions reporting rarely increases click rates but it increases the reading time by 10 to 20 percent‚ strengthens credibility and boosts reader engagement. Karen McIntyre‚ professor for multimedia journalism at the Virginia Commonwealth University‚ discovered that solutions journalism is also an antidote to feeling helpless and hopeless.  What began in Bornstein’s one-bedroom New York apartment a decade ago has now become an international network. SJN has trained more than 47‚000 journalists in 160 countries‚ and curates a searchable database with solutions stories from 1‚900 news organizations.  “People want more solutions journalism [with a focus on the climate crisis]‚” writes Mitali Mukherjee‚ who co-authored Reuters’ report on climate news use. “And essentially‚ that means that they’re looking for not just positive stories‚ but they’re looking for what’s working in a community and what might be replicated in another.” What I personally appreciate most about this kind of solutions-focused journalism is its impact. I continue to be amazed how the stories change me and the readers. After I wrote about the pesticide use and labor abuse in the flower industry‚ I stopped buying red roses for my spouse.  After I researched an in-depth feature on the climate diet (here’s a piece about the topic by my colleague Peter Yeung)‚ I pivoted to plant-based meals.  Since I wrote about solutions for the increase in pedestrian deaths in the US‚ I approach crosswalks much more carefully.  I am a reporter‚ not an advocate. I won’t tell you what to make for dinner or who to vote for. But once we have all the facts clearly laid out with compelling evidence‚ it’s nearly impossible to ignore them. I know this is the case for you‚ too‚ because you tell me so. Since focusing on solutions journalism‚ I’m getting significantly more mail from readers‚ and 99 percent of the people who write are genuinely engaged‚ interested‚ asking good questions or requesting more information so they can adopt an idea themselves. It’s fascinating and enriching! Very rarely do I get a letter that is insulting‚ and I believe this is also proof that we have earned your trust. Crushed by negative news? Sign up for the Reasons to be Cheerful newsletter. [contact-form-7] Also‚ it’s just simply more fun and more meaningful for me to interview people who actively tackle climate change/pollution/mental health/biodiversity or any number of issues I care about. “As a journalist who is often disturbed by the sad stories that make the news daily‚ it comes as a relief to do something different — tell stories of hope that illuminate a gloomy world‚” freelance solutions reporter Olayide Oluwafunmilayo Soaga shared on Solutions Journalism Day.  I have been a reporter since I was 16 years old‚ writing stories about local politics and art reviews for my local paper after school. I honestly don’t think I would still be passionate about my job if I mainly wrote about what’s wrong with the world. Also‚ in the last 20 years‚ I’ve lived in Europe‚ Asia and the US. I feel this is an advantage for solutions journalism because I have seen for myself how different countries grapple with problems that other countries have been able to solve. Switzerland has the lowest abortion rate in the world‚ Sweden recycles more glass (94 percent) than any other country‚ some countries have found solutions for rising gun deaths. Which means: Your country or community can solve the issue‚ too. Bornstein sees solutions journalism as a way of shedding light on what’s possible‚ and maybe even changing what we see as possible. He quotes the saying that sunlight is the best disinfectant before adding‚ “Maybe it isn’t enough to shine a light on shortcomings‚ maybe journalism shouldn’t just play the role of disinfectant‚ but also photosynthesis.”  And that is a reason to be cheerful. The post How I Got Hooked on Solutions Journalism appeared first on Reasons to be Cheerful.
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The Best Way to Discover God’s Truth – Senior Living – December 14
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The Best Way to Discover God’s Truth – Senior Living – December 14

The Best Way to Discover God's Truth The Israelites are stubborn‚ like a stubborn heifer. How then can the LORD pasture them like lambs in a meadow? – Hosea 4:16 Are you strong enough to face how mistaken many of your most cherished beliefs are? Well‚ here are a few things you may not have known: 1. Marie Antoinette never said‚ "Let them eat cake." This phrase was attributed to her but had actually been used by other prominent figures long before. 2. Charles Lindbergh was not the first person to fly nonstop across the Atlantic. He was the 92nd‚ although he was the first to do it alone. 3. The centipede doesn't have a hundred legs. It usually has 21 or 30‚ though some have more than 100. And the millipede certainly doesn't have a thousand legs. In fact‚ very few have more than 200. 4. A red flag to a bull is meaningless because bulls are colorblind. 5. The idea that people never use more than 10% of their brain is false. 6. An ostrich never buries its head in the sand. It only looks that way when it lowers its head in fear‚ to feed itself‚ or to cover its eggs for protection. When it comes to our ideas of God‚ it's important that we don't have a stubborn heart and are willing to accept when we might be wrong. So instead of assuming you have the Christian life all figured out‚ live your life with a humble and teachable attitude and let God guide you in His truth each day! Prayer Challenge: Ask God to reveal to you areas where you have been stubborn and unteachable. Pray that He would soften your heart in these areas so that you can grow in His truth! Visit the Senior Living Ministries website The post The Best Way to Discover God’s Truth – Senior Living – December 14 appeared first on GodUpdates.
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A Prayer for Us to Believe the Lord Will Do What He Says – Your Daily Prayer – December 14
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A Prayer for Us to Believe the Lord Will Do What He Says – Your Daily Prayer – December 14

A Prayer for Us to Believe the Lord Will Do What He SaysBy Maggie Meadows Cooper "You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what He said." – Luke 2:45 Each year as the Christmas season gets closer‚ my heart fills with excitement over celebrating Jesus with family and friends. The decorations‚ the parties‚ the gifts...they all occupy my mind and time. But as Christmas Day approaches‚ my thoughts usually turn to Mary. All she endured on that long trek to Bethlehem. Giving birth in a barn surrounded by unsettling sounds and smells. Her worries and fears for her newborn son. But most of all‚ I wonder‚ why her? To most people thousands of years ago‚ Mary was just an ordinary girl living an ordinary life. Until one night when everything changed. An angel of the Lord told her that she would be carrying a baby...and not just any baby...the Savior of the world. When the angel left Mary‚ she hurried to see her relative Elizabeth‚ who recognized that Mary would be the mother of the Messiah. Her baby (John the Baptist) jumped in her womb at the sound of Mary's voice! And then‚ in Luke 2:45‚ Elizabeth said‚ "You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what He said." It’s so simple and yet so profound‚ all at the same time. Mary was chosen because she believed the Lord would do what He said. Not only for those nine months. Or for that one miraculous night in Bethlehem. The Lord had to choose a heart who believed He would do what He said...for life.  On every sleepless night‚ as she cradled that baby boy to the training and exhausting days of toddlerhood. From the childhood days of mischievous play and games to the stressful years of life with a teenager. As she watched her grown son gain independence as a young adult teaching others‚ and then as she stood at the foot of the cross her precious son died on. Mary's story was not just on that night in Bethlehem‚ and I think we too often forget that. She lived every day as a wife and mama of multiple children. She cooked and cleaned on days that were long and exhausting. But on top of that‚ she held in her heart the moments she "treasured" and "pondered" about Jesus that must have brought her restless nights. We know from her song that she knew scriptures and stories of God's faithfulness passed down through generations‚ that she most likely knew the prophecies‚ and therefore knew that Jesus was a part of that story. Early on‚ when Mary and Joseph took baby Jesus to the temple‚ a man named Simeon blessed them and said to Mary‚ "This child is destined to cause many in Israel to fall‚ but He will be a joy to many others. He has been sent as a sign from God‚ but many will oppose Him. As a result‚ the deepest thoughts of many hearts will be revealed. And a sword will pierce your very soul." Now‚ if that wouldn't burden a mama‚ I don't know what else would. But Mary … I have to think that she believed God had a plan. A good plan‚ in spite of bad circumstances‚ in spite of scary things‚ and in spite of what she could see in those last days. It would be hard to think that Mary never feared or tossed and turned at times. But I don't believe she ever doubted that God would do what He said. And so she was the one. Jesus loved his mama...some of His last words were entrusting her to John's care. And trying to imagine that scene‚ my heart is torn apart. It was our Prince of Peace hanging on that cross‚ but it was also a son and His mama. While she knew He was the Savior‚ He was also her baby...that same baby we celebrate this Christmas. And she believed He would do what He said. May we all have a heart like Mary's this Christmas season and every day after. Let's pray: Dear Jesus‚Thank you for Mary and her heart that believed when so many others wouldn't. So often‚ it seems my prayer becomes‚ "I believe; help my unbelief." But I long to have a heart like Mary's. Help me believe that you will do what you say‚ not just for this hour‚ or this day‚ or this week‚ but for life. In Your Mighty Name‚ Jesus‚ Amen Photo credit: Robert Thiemann/Unsplash.com Maggie Meadows Cooper is a wife‚ mom‚ educator‚ author‚ and blogger with a longing for women to grow a heart for Jesus and others. She is the author of the children's book "Bumper" and blogs at The Little Moments about what the Lord is teaching her through her children and everyday life. She contributes to Blogs by Christian Women‚ Devotional Diva‚ She Disciples‚ and Connecting Ministries. An educator with an M.Ed. in Early Childhood Education from Auburn University (War Eagle!)‚ she has twenty years of experience working with young children. She loves all things chocolate‚ real Coca-Cola‚ and lives with her husband‚ three children‚ and two rambunctious dogs in Opelika‚ Alabama. LISTEN to More Christmas Prayers on LifeAudio Teach Us to Pray is a FREE prayer podcast hosted by iBelieve writer Christina Patterson. Each week‚ she gives you practical‚ real-life tips on how to grow your faith and relationship with God through the power of prayer. To listen to her episode on What to Pray in the Morning for a Worry-Free Day‚ click below! Now that you’ve prayed‚ are you in need of someone to pray for YOU? Click the button below! Visit iBelieve.com for more inspiring prayer content. The post A Prayer for Us to Believe the Lord Will Do What He Says – Your Daily Prayer – December 14 appeared first on GodUpdates.
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Conservative Satire
Conservative Satire
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December 14‚ 2023
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Some of Israel’s biggest enemies are Jews in America
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Some of Israel’s biggest enemies are Jews in America

Not just any Jews‚ self-loathing Socialist Jews like Bernie Sanders who calls Israel’s retaliatory war against Hamas a “mass atrocity.” Sanders claims Israelis have the right to defend themselves‚ but apparently‚ not if it means killing the people who attacked them first. Daily Mail (h/t Nita)  Vermont Democrat (self-proclaimed Socialist) Senator Bernie Sanders has penned […]
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Strange & Paranormal Files
Strange & Paranormal Files
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David Grusch Reveals Disturbing UFO Secrets to Tucker Carlson: Claims of Death &; Physical Harm in Cover-Up
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David Grusch Reveals Disturbing UFO Secrets to Tucker Carlson: Claims of Death &; Physical Harm in Cover-Up

David Grusch‚ a key figure in the UFO mystery‚ has participated in consecutive interviews with mainstream media regarding the concealment of UFO information. Grusch has gained prominence following the July 2023 US Congress UAP hearings‚ thanks to his compelling and assertive testimony about non-human intelligence. He is consistently claiming we have alien crafts in double […] The post David Grusch Reveals Disturbing UFO Secrets to Tucker Carlson: Claims of Death &; Physical Harm in Cover-Up appeared first on How and Why's.
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BlabberBuzz Feed
2 yrs

Dem PA Congressional Candidate Revolutionizing Political Campaign With THIS Tool‚ Will It Work?
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Dem PA Congressional Candidate Revolutionizing Political Campaign With THIS Tool‚ Will It Work?

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CNN Panel Outlines Rudy Giuliani's
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CNN Panel Outlines Rudy Giuliani's "Dramatic" Fall: From 'America's Mayor' To Financial Ruin?

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Concupiscence. It’s Not Just About Sex.
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Concupiscence. It’s Not Just About Sex.

“Concupiscence” isn’t a word most people use every day. Even trained pastors and theologians who are more familiar with the term may be confused about its meaning. For many‚ the word brings to mind Augustine’s battles with lust or our contemporary debates about human sexuality. For these reasons‚ many think of concupiscence only as a term for illicit sexual desire. Merriam-Webster’s definition—strong desire‚ especially sexual—reinforces this usage. But in Christian theology‚ concupiscence isn’t just about sex. The term applies more broadly to disordered inclinations and desires that are wrongly bent in any way—whether they be greedy‚ lustful‚ unfairly prejudiced‚ or selfishly biased. Church history shows us how embracing a Reformed understanding of desire can help Christians today. Sin or Not? Augustine’s View of Concupiscence For much of church history‚ the debate around concupiscence centered on this question: Does God hold people guilty for illicit desires even if they don’t act on them? Augustine of Hippo’s early study of Scripture led him to answer this question in the affirmative. He taught that our illicit thoughts‚ desires‚ and actions incur guilt regardless of our will and intent. Why? They’re evidence of our participation in the original sin of Adam and Eve. Augustine wrote‚ “All that a man does wrongfully in ignorance‚ and all that he cannot do rightly through what he wishes‚ are called sins because they have their origin in the first sin.” The term ‘concupiscence’ applies broadly to disordered inclinations‚ thoughts‚ and desires that are wrongly bent in any way—whether they be lustful‚ unfairly prejudiced‚ or selfishly biased. In his later debates with Pelagius‚ Augustine made clear that because of the corruption of humanity’s sinful desires‚ we can only do good by God’s grace. But he didn’t stop there. His teaching on baptism complicates his doctrine of concupiscence. Augustine wrote that “concupiscence itself is not sin any longer‚ whenever [baptized Christians] do not consent to it.” Scholars throughout history have debated what Augustine meant by this statement. Latin doesn’t possess a distinction between active “sin” and “sinfulness.” The term peccatum can carry either meaning‚ making it difficult to determine what Augustine intended. But since Augustine’s time‚ the Roman Catholic Church has taught that baptism removes original sin. They’ve maintained that disordered desires that arise in baptized Christians don’t become sin until we act on them. By Martin Luther’s time‚ some medieval theologians even taught that disordered lusts should be welcomed by believers as opportunities to exercise virtue through resisting them. We Remain Sinful: The Reformers’ View of Concupiscence The Reformers saw the Catholic view as dangerous and contrary to God’s Word. They were convinced illicit desire remained sin and continued to incur guilt in believers even after Christian baptism. The King James (KJV) translation of Colossians 3:5 reflects their view (cf. Rom. 7:8‚ 1 Thess. 4:5). The KJV translators used the English phrase “evil concupiscence” to translate Greek terms our modern versions read as “evil desires.” Paul says that evil desires—along with “sexual immorality‚ impurity . . . and covetousness”—are “earthly” and should be understood as idolatrous at the core. In Luther’s 1537 Smalcald Articles‚ he argued that the Catholic Church’s failure to name concupiscence as sin led them to a corresponding misunderstanding of repentance. Though illicit desires may arise in believers prior to and apart from a conscious act of the will‚ they stand‚ argued Luther‚ as evidence of our old sinful connection to Adam (Eph. 4:22). As such‚ they shouldn’t be allowed to fester; they must be “put to death” (Col. 3:5; cf. Matt. 5:21–30). The Reformation confessions that came after Luther followed his lead (see Augsburg‚ Belgic‚ Thirty-nine Articles‚ Heidelberg‚ Westminster‚ and Second London Baptist). With their statements on concupiscence‚ these confessions made three points clear: 1. Christians aren’t sinful because we intentionally sin. Rather‚ we sin because we’re born sinful; even before we act‚ our hearts are bent toward evil. 2. It’s not just unbelievers who are held guilty for concupiscent desires. No‚ even Christians‚ while simultaneously justified‚ are sinners. What Paul calls the “old man” is‚ though defeated‚ still present with us. 3. So it’s not just the unconverted who must battle against sinful desires and thoughts; believers must actively confront their inner corruption too. Why Does the Doctrine Matter Today? What are the implications of the Reformation understanding of concupiscence for believers today? 1. The doctrine reminds us no one is innocent before God. In a culture that celebrates being “true to yourself‚” it’s easy to assume every person’s expressive identity‚ or inner bent‚ is natural and morally neutral (and perhaps even positively good)‚ but this runs contrary to Scripture. Jesus made clear that uncleanness doesn’t begin with outward actions but comes from the heart (Mark 7:21; cf. Rom. 7:18‚ 23–25). “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Rom. 3:23). “All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way” (Isa. 53:6). We’re all guilty and morally culpable before God both within and without—both for desires bidden and unbidden. 2. It encourages us to confess illicit thoughts and desires‚ even when unwanted‚ as sin. Whatever our view of the conflicted self in Romans 7‚ we should all attest that conflicting desires still war within us after salvation. Knowing the right actions to take and actually desiring or willing to take them are still two different things for us. Even if a person doesn’t battle sexual lust‚ sins like greedy covetousness‚ lust for power‚ and selfish prejudice still lurk in the recesses of our thoughts and attitudes so even the faithful cry out‚ “Who can discern his errors?” (Ps. 19:12). “Who can understand [the heart]?” (Jer. 17:9). It’s not just the unconverted who battle sinful desires and thoughts; believers must actively confront their inner corruption too. But though we may admit we’re sinners‚ most of us are tempted to evade and excuse our sin. We may even justify our desires‚ convincing ourselves we’ve done no wrong. However‚ the Bible doesn’t pull punches with sinful thoughts and wants. In Romans 1‚ for example‚ Paul explicitly describes both same-sex sexual activity (“exchanged”/“gave up natural relations‚” vv. 26–27) and same-sex sexual desire (“consumed with passion‚” v. 27) as sin. Whatever the particulars of our inner temptations‚ we must agree with God about their sinfulness. We must give our illicit desires the same labels he does. 3. By exposing everyone’s inner bent toward sin‚ the doctrine humbles us‚ encourages honesty‚ and cultivates compassion in us for fellow sinners. Believers who are pursuing obedience to Christ still experience temptation due to corrupted desires. Some may even feel crushed by disappointment because the desires are unrelenting. This should lead us to lament our internal bent toward sin‚ give thanks for the Spirit’s presence renewing our hearts‚ pray eagerly for the Spirit’s work‚ and seek (where possible) to root out sinful desire from our lives‚ knowing that as we do‚ we’re not alone in the battle. When we adopt a deeper (and more biblically defensible) definition of concupiscence‚ we’re recognizing that the corrupting effects of the fall affect everyone. The reality of remaining sin in believers should corporately humble us‚ encourage us to walk in honesty and transparent fellowship with one another (1 John 1:7)‚ and give us empathy for fellow sinners who carry sinful desires and selfish thoughts just as we do. The reality of concupiscence should motivate us to listen to the challenges and admonitions of others because‚ though we may not want to admit it‚ they may better see sinful patterns and prejudiced ideas to which we’re blind. 4. By teaching us to name our sin‚ this doctrine gives us hope for growth in Christ. Paul wants Christians to be aware of their remaining sin‚ but he doesn’t want us to think we’re trapped. He calls us to mortify our sinful nature again and again until we reach glory (Eph. 4:22; Col. 3:5ff.). How do we do this? We don’t obfuscate about our sin but regularly call the “old man” by his name in confession. It’s hard to confess greedy desires. And in some contexts‚ it’s not helpful to publicly confess sexual lust or bitterly prejudiced thoughts and attitudes. For this reason‚ our churches do well when we provide safe spaces where individuals who battle wrong desires and thoughts can be honest about their sin and receive assurance of God’s forgiveness. Though it may initially feel like a punch to the gut to name the old Adam’s continuing influence on our desires and thoughts‚ such honesty is ultimately the way of true repentance and ongoing cleansing in Christ (1 John 1:7‚ 9). In these four ways‚ a more faithful doctrine of concupiscence can help our churches. It may feel counterintuitive. But‚ by God’s grace‚ recognizing and confessing the ways sin has corrupted our desires is a path toward empathy‚ compassion‚ and Christian hope.
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Support Your Teen Through Depression
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Support Your Teen Through Depression

When our kids are young‚ it seems like the world is their oyster. They play freely with their friends‚ ask questions without hesitation‚ and are full of energy—sometimes too much energy. They’re relatively easy to entertain‚ and they think we—their parents—are cool. But then the teenage years come. Our kids no longer think we’re cool. They want their distance‚ and their speech and mannerisms have an edge. They listen to different types of music and hang out in their rooms all day on the phone‚ playing video games with their friends. Some of this change is natural as kids grow up. But there are times when something seems off. What happens when teenage angst turns into serious anger problems? What happens when they hang out in their rooms all day on the phone playing video games without their friends? What happens when they quit activities they once enjoyed? Watching a child suffer from depression is a parent’s nightmare. We often try to fix the problem in the cleanest‚ most efficient way we know. We tell our kids to pray and read the Bible more‚ we give advice based on our experience‚ and we research a laundry list of helpful suggestions—but that doesn’t always solve the problem. Our suggestions can be met with pushback‚ our advice can fall on deaf ears‚ and our directives to pray and read the Bible can be met with derision and scorn. Watching a child suffer from depression is a parent’s nightmare. We often try to fix the problem in the cleanest‚ most efficient way we know. We may feel we’re at a loss and‚ more than that‚ like we failed. We may blame our spouses‚ the school system‚ our neighborhoods‚ or certain friends. We may ask‚ What if I hadn’t done this or that? As parents‚ especially Christian parents‚ we need to be equipped to manage our children’s depression from a biblical perspective. Here are three tips for parents whose teens may suffer from persistent sadness. Destigmatize I work in an Asian church context. While depression is being discussed more often‚ it still remains to some extent a taboo topic in my community. Older adults fear that any admission of mental illness will cause a teen they love to be viewed with suspicion by others or to be excluded from activities he or she enjoys. These extreme cases can lead parents to deny their children are anything but happy and healthy. But many people who live typical lives deal with depression. They’re our coworkers‚ friends‚ classmates‚ and family members. Every year‚ about 15 percent of 12- to 17-year-olds experience adolescent depression. When I learned about a close friend’s battle with depression‚ it helped me understand that person in a different way. Instead of seeing him antagonistically‚ my heart grew in compassion for him as a fellow sojourner in the faith who’s learning Christ’s grace is sufficient in his weakness. Parents would do well to understand that having depression doesn’t sentence a child to a miserable life or to being a pariah. Discern While older generations may be slow to recognize depression concerns‚ Gen Z can be too quick to do so. When your teen tells you he or she is depressed‚ it’s important to distinguish serious concerns from normal‚ everyday emotions. Not every bad day is a sign of depression‚ nor is every nervous feeling a sign of anxiety. Parents can harm their teens both by ignoring serious underlying issues and by overreacting to temporary emotions. In general‚ major depression includes “some of the following signs and symptoms‚ most of the day‚ nearly every day‚ for at least 2 weeks‚” according to the National Institute of Mental Health: persistent sad‚ anxious‚ or “empty” mood feelings of hopelessness or pessimism feelings of irritability‚ frustration‚ or restlessness feelings of guilt‚ worthlessness‚ or helplessness loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities decreased energy‚ fatigue‚ or feeling slowed down difficulty concentrating‚ remembering‚ or making decisions difficulty sleeping‚ waking early in the morning‚ or oversleeping changes in appetite or unplanned weight changes physical aches or pains‚ headaches‚ cramps‚ or digestive problems that do not have a clear physical cause and do not go away with treatment thoughts of death or suicide or suicide attempts If these signs are evident and persistent‚ parents should contact a professional therapist or psychologist and look at the possibility of beginning a medical treatment plan. There are plenty of Christian counselors who can help not only with treatment but with a biblical perspective on depression. Disarm A young adult I know has dealt with major depression. When giving her testimony‚ she said it annoyed her when her parents would tell her to “just pray.” Those words‚ said with the best of intentions‚ didn’t account for the complicated nuances of this young woman’s problems. She ended up feeling worse‚ and their relationship grew increasingly tense. As parents‚ we must ensure our words and actions don’t exacerbate our teens’ struggles when they’re experiencing crises. In the book of Job‚ three friends came to comfort Job after he suffered unfathomable calamities. They weren’t much help. They told Job his sin was causing his pain and that his fortunes would be reversed if he’d only repent. Job became defensive‚ and when the Lord intervened in chapter 38‚ he revealed suffering doesn’t always have a black-and-white explanation. Like Job’s friends‚ parents can struggle to establish a connection with their teen during a depressive episode. There are no formulas‚ no prescriptions. Yes‚ medications can help your child to think more clearly‚ but they don’t replace the support only a parent can provide‚ nor can they cure a sinful heart. Helping our children through depression will require compassion and sacrificial love we can’t produce ourselves—these are characteristics only found in our Savior. Helping our children through depression will require us to reach a level of compassion and sacrificial love we may have never known before—characteristics only found in our Savior. Our best tool to disarm our teens during a crisis of depression or anxiety is the gospel. Jesus‚ the Son of God‚ seated at his right hand in heaven‚ took on human nature and endured intense suffering.  In 1 Peter 2:23‚ we learn that “when he was reviled‚ he did not revile in return; when he suffered‚ he did not threaten‚ but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.” When we point our children to the example Jesus set in his suffering‚ we relieve ourselves from the impossible burden of being the fixer. Our children can instead fall into the much stronger arms of a God who can handle their darkest moments‚ their deepest fears‚ and their most troubling depressive episodes. There are no easy answers for depression. Some teens may require medication‚ others may not. Some may wrestle for a season‚ others for a lifetime. Some episodes have clear-cut causes‚ others don’t. But there’s a Savior who will be by our side‚ wrestling for us‚ even when we’ve lost the strength to fight.
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