Have you ever seen something in a movie or online and thought‚ "That's totally fake‚" only to find out it's absolutely a real thing? That's sort of how this house in Pennsylvania comes across. It just seems too fantastical to be real‚ and yet somehow it actually exists. The home sits between Greencastle and Mercersburg‚ Pennsylvania‚ and houses a pretty unique public secret. There's a cave in the basement. Not a man cave or a basement that makes you feel like you're in a cave‚ but an actual cave that you can't get to unless you go through the house. Turns out the cave was discovered in the 1830s on the land of John Coffey‚ according to Uncovering PA‚ but the story of how it was found is unclear. People would climb down into the cave to explore occasionally until the land was leased about 100 years later and a small structure was built over the cave opening. The idea was to make it accessible to visitors and use the cave as a tourist attraction‚ and the small structure was eventually built into a two-story house. But it was closed to the public in 1954 after the land was purchased for limestone mining and it remained closed for nearly 70 years. (In the words of Stephanie Tanner‚ "How rude.") Sometime during that 70-year closure‚ the home that contains the cave was purchased by Dara Black‚ and in 2021‚ it reopened to the public.Currently‚ the home is occupied by Black‚ but to gain access to the cave you can simply book a tour. The best part about booking a tour is that you only have to make a donation to enter. It's a pay-what-you-can sort of setup‚ but since someone actually lives in the home‚ you can't just pop in and ask for a tour. You have to go during the "open house" times available. According to the Black-Coffey Caverns Facebook page‚ they treat the tours truly as an open house‚ complete with snacks and drinks. There's a waiting room area where people can chat and eat their snacks while they wait for the tour to start. They also offer cave yoga once a month. According to Uncovering PA‚ the tour takes about 45 minutes to complete and there are about 3‚000 feet worth of passageways. Imagine living on top of a cave and just taking strangers on a waltz under your floorboards essentially. It makes me wonder if the house is quiet at night or if you can hear echoes of the cave sounds while you're trying to sleep. From the Facebook page‚ it appears that the cave doesn't have any lights‚ but there were pictures with some Christmas lights mounted to the cave walls. Otherwise‚ you have to use flashlights. Hopefully‚ no mischievous children decide to play hide and seek or you just might have to call in a rescue crew. Literally. But what an unbelievable "pics or it didn't happen" kind of story to tell. It's not every day you run into someone that has a door that leads you to an underground cave. If you want to see what a cave tour looks like starting from the outside of the house‚ check out the video below:This article originally appeared on 1.30.23

Parents want to do right by their kids. Make them feel special‚ let them have fun and give them opportunities to enjoy magic before adulthood sets in. And yet‚ that desire can easily be suppressed by the need to keep up with the lavish events constantly seen on social media. For many families‚ over-the-top activities are simply not feasible—especially ones that come year after year like birthdays. So many are going against societal expectations and instead choosing traditions that work for their unique situation. Opting for experiences over expensive gifts‚ for example‚ or having one-on-one family time instead of parties with friends.For Marissa Light‚ it looks a little more like not even doing a birthday party every year.“Under no circumstances will I be throwing my daughter a birthday party every single year‚” Light said in a now-viral TikTok video. “Here's the deal: She is getting a first birthday party‚ she is getting a Sweet Sixteen and she is getting a graduation party. Other than that‚ she is not getting any more birthday parties."And perhaps Light isn’t totally off-base in her reasoning. According to PBS‚ kids don’t even remember birthday parties until after they are three-years-old. That’s essentially $400 (the average amount parents spend on their kid’s party) going towards a core memory that won’t even exist. Light went on to say that she had been to other kids' parties which were “not enjoyable” and she didn’t want to force that experience on others unnecessarily. That being said‚ she added‚ “Now look‚ if you are someone who genuinely enjoys throwing your child a birthday party‚ pop off‚ Queen. Do what you want to do. I'm not telling anyone else how to live their lives. I just personally don't find it necessary and I'm not going to be doing it.” @marissalight It’s been a minute since I’ve given you a #hotmomtake … you’re welcome. #babybirthdayparty #momsoftiktok #momtok #firsttimemom #sahm #momcontent #millenialmom #birthdayparty ♬ original sound - Marissa | Lifestyle | SAHM But that doesn’t mean that no celebrations will be had. The family will still have “dinner and cake with them every single year‚” plus their daughter would get an 'All About You' day” where she would enjoy a “special breakfast” and activities of her choosing‚ like princess dress up‚ a trip to the trampoline park‚ etc. And when siblings come‚ Light’s daughter will be able to choose whether or not she wants them included in whatever birthday shenanigans are happening. So all in all‚ a pretty sweet deal. This option just feels more exciting and less taxing‚ Light explains. While she understands that party planning is some people’s jam‚ she admits “it's a lot of stress on my part to organize and plan and put on the party… I just don't want a bunch of people sitting around at my house all day." Light’s video‚ as most parenting videos are wont to do‚ drew both heavy praise and criticism. Many thought that her choices were depriving her daughter‚ and not really prioritizing her happiness. This was especially true for adults who didn’t have parties growing up. “As someone who didn’t get birthday parties‚ please do that for your kid‚” one person wrote. Another added‚ “I never had bday parties growing up‚ and I was always jealous of kids in my class who got them.” Still‚ others found promise in the idea.““An introverted kid will love this. Just make sure that you're celebrating that kid the way they'd like. Not the way you want to celebrate them‚” one person commented. “I LOVE the idea of experiences‚ so if they want to go to a show or an amusement park for their birthday.” Some even offered up their own unconventional non-party ideas. One parent wrote‚ “I just bring my kids to the park with a bunch of cupcakes and any kid at the park is included.” Whether you can or cannot get behind Light’s take on birthday parties‚ we can probably all agree that our energy is often best spent doing things we truly want to do. Maybe some parents will still want to arrange a get together for their friends every year. But hopefully this conversation can at least offer some permission to do so in a way that doesn’t take a huge toll. There are so many ways to make a birthday special‚ after all.

The evolution of language is fascinating‚ and the etymology of specific words can be a fun little trip through human history as well as human creativity.Many English words are derived from Greek and Latin‚ but other European languages make up a good chunk of our language as well. The roots of some words can surprise us‚ and so can the way certain words came to be. And in some cases‚ what we don't know can be just as surprising as what we do. Enjoy diving into the history of 15 words we use every day. 1. DogDog is often one of the first words babies learn to say‚ and it's one of the first kids learn to spell. But don't let its simplicity fool you. This word is truly a mystery. The word "dog" comes from dogca‚ a very rarely used Old English word‚ but how we started using it as our everyday name for canines‚ no one knows. "Its origin remains one of the great mysteries of English etymology‚" according to the Online Etymology Dictionary. Even more interestingly‚ no one knows the origins of the Spanish word for "dog" ("perro")‚ nor do they know the origins of the Polish ("pies") or Serbo-Croatian ("pas") words for our canine friends‚ either. Who knew dogs were so enigmatic?2. NightmareIt's obvious where "night" comes from in "nightmare‚" but what about "mare"? Surely‚ were not referring to a female horse here.Horse‚ no. But female‚ yes. Female goblin‚ to be precise. In Old English‚ mare means "incubus‚ nightmare‚ monster; witch‚ sorcerer." And "nightmare" started being used around 1300 to refer to "an evil female spirit afflicting men (or horses) in their sleep with a feeling of suffocation." Yikes. Thankfully‚ now it's just any old bad dream. 3. JumboWe've all seen animals named for words with certain meanings‚ but here we have the opposite. The word "jumbo" came from a large elephant who lived at the London Zoo. Zookeeper Anoshan Anathjeysari named him "Jumbe‚" the Swahili word for "chief." But his status as one of the largest African bush elephants in Europe in the 19th century caused his nickname‚ Jumbo‚ to become synonymous with enormousness.4. MuscleThe Latin word musculus means "little mouse." As hilarious as it sounds‚ they thought the movement of muscles looked like little mice scurrying under the skin‚ hence the origin. Kinda ick to think about‚ but also logical‚ so here we are.5. QuarantineAh‚ a word with which we are all familiar‚ thanks to COVID-19. But do we know what it really means? If you understand roots‚ you may guess that "quar" might have something to do with the number four‚ and you'd be right. In Latin‚ quadraginta means a period of 40 days. Our usage of "quarantine" to mean isolation from others comes from the Venetian policy of ships coming into port from plague-stricken countries in the late 1300s to remain in port for 40 days before letting people off. The usage to mean any period of time in isolation began being used in the 1600s. 6. MortgageMost of us grow up not really understanding what a mortgage is until we buy our first house‚ but even then‚ most of us don't know what the word literally means. It comes from Old French‚ mort gaige‚ literally meaning "death pledge." HAHAHAHAHA. Death pledge. Mortgage. That's funny. However‚ it doesn't mean you're tied to the debt til you die‚ even if it feels like it. The death part means the deal dies either when you pay it off or when you become unable to pay. Doesn't really change the fact that it feels a bit like you're signing your life away when you buy a house‚ though.7. ClueOddly enough‚ "clue" comes from a misspelling (or alternate spelling from before standardized spelling was a thing) of the word "clew‚" meaning a ball of yarn. The word itself comes from German‚ but its usage points to the Greek myth in which Ariadne gives Theseus a ball (or clew) of yarn to help him escape the labyrinth. Now we use it to refer to anything that helps us solve a mystery.8. NiceThe word "nice" is nice and simple‚ right? It's the most basic word we use for "pleasant‚" a definitively positive word. But this seemingly simple word has been through quite the trek in its etymology. From the Latin nescius‚ meaning "ignorant‚ unaware‚" it was used to mean "timid" or"faint-hearted" before the year 1300. A couple hundred years later‚ it had morphed to "fussy‚ fastidious" or "dainty‚ delicate." In another 100 years‚ it changed to "precise‚ careful." Tack on another few hundred years and we're at "agreeable‚ delightful‚" and from there it was only short jaunt to "kind‚ thoughtful." What a nice journey from insult to compliment. 9. ShampooI would have bet money that the word "shampoo" was French in origin‚ but nope. It's Hindi‚ coming from the term champo‚ and the original meaning was "to massage‚ rub and percuss the surface of (the body) to restore tone and vigor." It's only been used to refer specifically to lathering and washing out strands of hair or carpet since the mid 1800s.10. TorpedoLiterally Latin for a stingray. As in the marine animal. That comes from the root word torpere‚ which means "be numb‚" since a ray's sting can numb you. It doesn't become the word for a propelled underwater explosive until the last couple hundred years. 11. AmbidextrousWe know that left-handedness was seen negatively throughout much of human history‚ but even the word that means "able to use both hands equally" has a right-handed bias baked into it. The medieval Latin ambidexter literally meansliterally means "right-handed on both sides."Isn't English fun?

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