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There are certain moments and milestones in life that hit harder than others. There are the biggies, of course—graduations, weddings, births, etc.—but there are also the smaller-but-still-significant ones that mark a major shift in life, when you officially cross a threshold into a whole new stage in your life's journey.A mom captured one of those moments on video as her teen son opened his first paycheck from his job at McDonald's. The video shared on Reddit shows a teen in a McDonald's hat sitting in the passenger seat of a car opening an envelope that contained his paycheck. His mom said it should be "200-and something" dollars, and after a hilariously long struggle to open the envelope (these Gen Zers have never snail mailed, no judgment), he looks over the check stub to get the full picture. "That's $283," he says in astonishment. To his credit, he asks "After tax, what's that?" not realizing that the amount of the check is the after-tax take home amount. His smile and laughter says it all.Watch: from MadeMeSmile "Let's take it to the bank, then!" Heck yeah, kid. People are remembering with fondness their own first paychecksMany viral videos of first paycheck reveals include complaints about how much is taken out it in taxes, so it's refreshing to see this young man's joy at his after-tax pay. It was a beautiful moment to capture on film, as most of us remember that feeling of empowerment that came with our own first real paychecks. People in the comments are feeling the nostalgia:"I remember that feeling - pretty sweet to see money you earned yourself. Feels good earning your own cash.""God that first paycheck felt so unreal. I will never forget you ace hardware.""I remember my first paycheck was for like $300 after two weeks of being a counselor and I felt RICH. I immediately spent it all on a guitar that I still have 20 years later.""I remember mine - from my first proper job. £64.29 in a little brown packet with holes in it to see the cash inside. 1980. ?""My first “paycheck” was like $65, I was so proud. I took my mom to pizzeria to treat her and she was very very touched.""Man… I remember my first paycheck… 23 years ago now. For two weeks of what limited hours I could work being 14 years old… that baby was $96.19! HO-LY smokes was I on cloud 9. Cashed it right there at work and bought myself a bag of Skittles. It was a good day."via GIPHYAh, to be young and unencumbered by adult expensesPart of what makes this endearing is the innocence of it. As a teen, he's not worried about affording a mortgage or groceries or diapers or retirement savings. His elation over making $283 is adorable because he's just starting down the path of adulthood. Soon enough, that paycheck will seem small, but he's not there yet. When you're a kid, money is kind of an abstract concept. Maybe you get a small allowance or get paid a few bucks for odd jobs, and opening a birthday card with some cash in it is exciting. It's not until you're fully into the working world for a while that the regular flow of money and what it means for your life really sinks in. And it's not until you're a fully independent adult that you really grasp how relative your feelings about your paycheck can be. There's a big difference between being a 16-year-old getting your first paycheck and being a 30-year-old trying to raise a family on wages that don't cover all your needs. Things like cost-of-living and inflation start to actually mean something as you get older and experience their impact. You might find that you can make a lot more money and yet feel poorer than ever as expenses pile up into adulthood. i.giphy.com Don't we all wish we could go back to the hopeful, happy days of making our first real chunk of money before all of those grown-up concerns arose? That simple sense of pride in having worked hard and earned something. The excitement of being able to pay for something you want yourself. The sense of freedom that comes with those early earnings. We see and feel all of that in this teen's bright smile, and it's glorious.He may not realize how different he might feel opening his paycheck down the road, but there's no need to tell him yet. We don't need to ruin this moment with "just you wait." He'll find out soon enough, as we all have, so let's just let him enjoy this moment of bliss. He's earned it.

Listen, not every mother-in-law disregards boundaries, questions their kid’s parenting styles, tries to manipulate, and so on and so forth. But there’s a reason why the stereotype exists. Plenty have their own horror stories of being on the receiving end of toxic MIL behavior. But for those wanting to avoid being that stereotype, Janelle Marie, or @millennialmatleave on TikTok believes that she has found the “key.” And it’s all about “filling your own cup.” “Fill your dang cup. Something outside of your children that makes you feel good, makes you feel fulfilled, makes you feel happy,” Janelle begins in a TikTok. That means that besides devoting your identity towards nurturing kids, you should be “nurturing” your marriage, as well as other relationships, like friendships, she notes. “I unfortunately feel like a number of mothers-in-law that are feeling really confused about this role of mother-in-law or dissatisfied with the role of mother-law, and it ends up meaning that they act in a way that comes across as desperate or controlling or with guilt trips — women who don’t have enough going on outside of their relationship and their role as a mom. And so when their kids grow up, they’re ill-equipped to replace that relationship with other things.” Janelle concludes by acknowledging it’s “easier said than done,” and reiterates that she isn’t trying to place blame, but rather just point out that “it’s something we need to be aware of.” @millennialmatleave Lets get some hobbies girls…..you know, when you can find a single free moment #hobbies #motherinlaw #toxicmotherinlaw #relationshipadvice #parentingtips #lifehack #grandparents #inlaws #parenting #boymom ♬ original sound - Janelle Marie Down in the comments, folks seem to clearly resonate with Janell’s stance—many have MILs of their own who could really benefit from a hobby or friend circle. “My MIL’s hobby was getting into my marriage,” quipped one viewer. “My toxic mother in law has had zero friends in the 18 years I’ve known her,” said another. A few MILs even chimed in. One shared, “I noticed I got too involved/emotional/bothered by my son’s relationship and immediately looked in the mirror! Poured that energy into my marriage, friends, and hobbies.” “OMG, you’re right,” reflected another. “Don’t get me wrong, I’m a good MIL, I don’t meddle or overstep, but boy do I struggle. I definitely need to get a hobby!” As we know, it can be hard for any mom to not lose themselves in the demands of raising a child. And only up until recently were women allowed by society to see themselves as anything beyond being a mother. Self care is also a fairly new concept for everyone. So it is understandable that many MILs find themselves in this struggle without proper coping mechanisms. But still, if the goal really is to maintain loving, healthy family relationships, it’s crucial to be mindful of any self sabotaging behaviors, and continuity working through those insecurities. That goes for MILs and non-MILs alike. For those booking to be the best mother-in-law they can be, here are a few pieces of advice: Don't make it about youIt can be difficult to accept that you might not be the #1 woman in your kid’s life anymore, but it’s important both for you and the couple that those potential feelings of rejection get reframed. After all, there's truly no love lost. Use your words to uplift, not criticizeWords are powerful. Use them wisely. A little complement now and then goes a long way. Back offLet the couple raise their kids, and solve their problems, as they see fit. Trust that you can let them handle their own. Even when intentions are good, offers of help without being asked for it can be seen as criticism. Invite and Include Leaving people out leads to resentment. Always invite kids and their spouses to join performances, graduations, birthday celebrations, and other family events, whether or not you think they want to or can attend. And, of course…fill your own cup.

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The news about Gov. Gavin Newsom’s veto of a far-reaching artificial intelligence bill was overheated and somewhat entertaining. “How California politics killed a nationally important AI bill,” blared the headline in a story this week in Politico. The subhead was even more overwrought: “The demise of California’s big swing at artificial intelligence safety underscored the powerful forces arrayed against regulation that’s seen as going too far.” Actually, the governor detailed a rationale in a long veto message. For starters, he sensibly considered the impact on one of his state’s emergent industries: California is home to 32 of the world’s 50 leading Al companies, pioneers in one of the most significant technological advances in modern history. We lead in this space because of our research and education institutions, our diverse and motivated workforce, and our free-spirited cultivation of intellectual freedom. I’m not sure that our regulation-crazy state fosters free-spirited pursuits of innovation, but I’ll grant him some creative license. Nevertheless, Senate Bill 1047 would have become the de facto national standard. Instead of trying to protect the public from the misuse or ill side effects of AI technology, it would have inserted the state government into dictating the specifics of model development. It also would have created another bureaucracy. The legislation suffered from the conceit of all California “landmark” legislating, as it empowered lawmakers to dictate how a company developed a model, even though it’s unlikely any of the regulators would have sufficient expertise to do so. In my newspaper column, I quoted Assemblymember Jim Wood, D-Healdsburg: “I’ll admit I don’t know a lot about AI … very little as a matter of fact … I like the way I may be doing this wrong, better than nobody else is doing anything at all.” I don’t mean to pick on Wood, who at least copped to his limited understanding, but arguing that the Legislature should do something — even if it does it wrong — because no one else is doing anything seems like a misguided approach to rule-making. That’s especially true given that if California gets it wrong, it would derail a burgeoning technology that offers many potentially upsides in addition to posing some obvious and reasonable concerns. The Safe and Secure Innovation for Frontier Artificial Intelligence Models Act would “require that a developer, before beginning to initially train a covered model, as defined, comply with various requirements, including implementing the capability to promptly enact a full shutdown.” Lawmakers’ effort to stop a catastrophic event seem rather far-fetched, and they downplayed the many upsides of AI technology. “SB 1047 is designed to limit the potential for ‘critical harm’ which includes ‘the creation or use of a chemical, biological, radiological or nuclear weapon in a manner that results in mass casualties.’ These harms are theoretical,” according to a letter from prominent tech groups urging a veto. “In contrast, the damage to California’s innovation economy is all too real. SB 1047 would introduce burdensome compliance costs and broad regulatory uncertainty as to which models are in scope.” The specific problem relates to the Legislature’s fundamental approach. “At root, SB 1047 violated a core tenet of smart technology policy: Regulation should not bottle up underlying system capabilities; instead, it should address real-world outputs and system performance,” argues my R Street Institute colleague Adam Thierer, an expert in AI technology.  In other words, regulations should focus on demonstrable harmful effects rather than preemptive design rules. They should, as U.S. Rep. Jay Obernolte, R-Calif., explained, focus on likely problems rather than neurotic fears from science fiction: “Rather than an army of robots with red laser eyes rising up to take over the world, the real risks of AI include hazards such as deep fakes, unlimited government surveillance and manipulation of public opinion by malign foreign actors.” The rules also need to prioritize freedom and innovation. The governor seemed to recognize these points, although he vowed to continue searching for other forms of AI regulation. So we’ll have to wait and see what comes up next year. He also signed some dubious AI-related bills this session, but at least, as a Southern California News Group editorial explained, those laws focus on actual problems rather than imaginary ones.  Other media outlets were aghast at Newsom’s veto, but many of those outlets have an almost magical faith in government intervention. Similar to Politico, the Washington Post portrayed the veto as “a major win for tech companies and venture capitalists who had lobbied fiercely against the legislation.” It was a win for them, but this isn’t so much a political story about lobbying and special interests as it is about the way a free society ought to approach promising new innovations.  Do we follow the lead of the European Union and stifle new technologies in their infancy or do we let them grow and prosper and try to limit the occasional ill effects that might result? Do we allow the nation’s most progressive Legislature to create a standard for everyone, or do we let the market work, more or less? Whatever Newsom’s reasoning, we should all be relieved by his veto. Steven Greenhut is Western region director for the R Street Institute. Write to him at sgreenhut@rstreet.org. READ MORE: A Troubling Preview of Harris’ Housing Policies Time for a Teachable Moment on Tariffs Watch Out for Rent-Control Madness The post Newsom Intelligently Wields Veto Pen appeared first on The American Spectator | USA News and Politics.