A lot has changed since the 1970s. If you took a 20-year-old from 2024 and put them in a time machine back to 1974, they’d have a hard time figuring out how to use a telephone, get a good picture on the television set with rabbit ears, or buy tickets for the Pink Floyd or Jackson 5 concert. They’d also probably be appalled by the number of people who smoke, the massive amount of litter on the streets, and the general lack of concern for the safety of children. In certain cities, they’d also be blown away by the amount of smog in the air. A Reddit user directing a production that takes place in the '70s wanted to learn what life was like in the “Me Decade,” so they asked the AkkReddit forum for “some behaviors from that time that have disappeared,” and he received over 2,400 responses. Some were bittersweet remembrances of a carefree and unsupervised childhood. At the same time, others recalled a time when children were often the targets of abuse and subject to many traumatic experiences that they were discouraged from speaking about. We looked at the thread and chose the 17 best responses to behaviors from the ‘70s that “have disappeared.”1. Playing with the phone cord"Fidgeting with the long coiled cord while talking on the phone—like twirling your finger into the coil.""We had a long cord that you could swing like a jump rope.""Answering every phone call with some variation of ' residence, speaking.'"2. Smelling cigarette smoke"Smoking everywhere all the time.""I remember the teachers lounge in my grammar school oozing smoke.""4 hour drives to see Nannie, all windows closed, both mom and dad smoking. Think of it, three 3 small kids getting poisioned from the 2nd hand smoke, pleading to stop or open the window and Dad saying 'get used to it, the world smokes' andMom saying the cracked open wi dow was 'too noisy'. Breathing through our coat sleeves with the arms opening under their car seats, where the fresh air came out. Four hours of constant nausea and illness that lingerd for 30 min after."3. Soda cans for candy"Returning soda bottles to the store and getting enough money back to buy a candy bar.""Yes, having work and save up for the candy bar or pack of gum. Or being lucky enough to find a penny for the gum ball machine outside the grocery store. "4. Clothes lasted forever"The lengths everyone went to make things last, all our clothes were patched or sewn up and handed down. New clothes shopping was maybe once a year. Or whenever the Sears catalog came out."5. Payphones"Checking the change slot in the phone booths in case people forgot their coins. I also remember when phone calls were a dime!"6. Calling the Time Lady"367-1234. At the time the time will be 11:22 and 20 seconds — beep”7. Playing outside all day"When being sent outside to play meant you were given a radius to stay in like 'our neighboorhood,' and a time to be home was 'when the street lights come on.'"8. TV was appointment viewing"Reading TV Guide for program times.""There was no way to record a show until VCRs came came out, so you watched a show when it was scheduled to be broadcast, and missed it if you didn’t turn it on at the time it started. So, families had to negotiate if there was more than one show on that people wanted to watch. Prime time was a big deal because that was when the three networks played their top shows."9. Rabbit ears"Wrapping tin foil squares on 'rabbit ear' antennas.""When the picture got fuzzy, slapping the side of the TV set to correct the picture."10. The phone book had many uses"That big phone book was the booster seat for the youngest kid at the table."11. CB radios"References the cb radio culture during normal conversations. Everyone understood.""Ten four""Breaker, breaker""You got that right, good buddy."12. Long distance was pricey"Making local calls vs long distance calls. Had to keep calls short to relatives because they were long distance. Making collect calls.""Right, and you might add the cost of long distance calls was X amount per minute. Also, moving into a new place required a call to the telephone company to have a phone installed in various rooms and you had to preorder the types and colors.""If you wanted to make an overseas call, you had to call the international operator at least a couple of hours before the call to schedule it."13. Fake collect calls"Making fake collect calls to your parents to come pick you up. 'You have received a collect call from … ‘we’re done and out front!’… do you wish to accept the call? Nope. Already got the message."14. Before scrolling, we read"Reading. Reading the newspaper. Reading the cereal boxes at breakfast. Reading on the toilet. Doing crosswords and word games. Before phones, you had to engage more with what was around.""If there was no Reader’s Digest in the bathroom, you had to read the shampoo ingredients. Sodium laurel sulfate, etc."15. The bank line"When Friday rolled around, and you needed money for the weekend, you went to the bank, stood in line and made a withdrawal.""We took our checks to the bank on Friday to be cashed, some for the checking account and some for spending cause everything was paid for with cash."16. Unsafe seating in trucks"No seatbelts, but drivers could get in trouble if car was overfilled, so a mom would yell 'duck' if she saw a cop. This would be a Volkswagen Bug with 7-8 kids piled up going to the beach or park. Totally normal to pile kids in the bed of a pickup truck - sometimes with folding chairs. Also common to grab the back of a car while you were skateboarding (there was a word for this I don't remember)."17. Staring at the sky"Laying down in the grass and looking at the sky. Leisure time died when portable entertainment became a thing, particularly nobile phones. The level of disconnection that's required to just stare at clouds or stars (and be happy doing it) is sorely missing nowadays. At least I miss it."

When you're a kid, friendships just sort of happen. The kids in your neighborhood, school, place of worship, sports or other activities are the pool of kids you pull friends from, and friendship in childhood mostly revolves around sharing common interests and having fun playing together. As you move to the teen years, friendship becomes more about "hanging out" and bonding over emotional things, and then adulthood comes along and throws the whole concept of friendship all out of whack. As you become entrenched in career and family and full-on-grown-up responsibilities, friendships can be harder to maintain, at least in the way we're used to. Time becomes a trickier commodity to manage, and what friendship looks like changes. That's not good or bad, it just…is. via GIPHYComedian Jake Lambert hit the nail on the head with a bit about various realities of modern adult friendship, pointing to relatable friendship norms such as:Not really knowing what your friend does for work: "What's my best friend's job? Something to do with numbers…I once heard them use the phrase 'project manager.'""No, I don't know exactly what they do for work, but I do know about every single one of their colleagues, who they hate and who's sleeping with who."What forms the basis of adult friendship:"Are we friends because we like the same things? No, we're not children! We're friends because we hate the same things." See on Instagram The reality of rarely getting together:"Oh we hang out all the time. What is it now, September? Well the last time I saw them was…I wanna say June? But we talk every day. I mean, not on the phone, on WhatsApp. I mean, not on WhatsApp, but we send each other memes on Instagram. But we message properly as well. Like we'll message to say we need to catch up soon, and then we do catch up, within about two or three months."Unannounced visits? No thanks. Unannounced phone calls? Also no. "Would I turn up at their house unannounced? No, not unless I wanted to give them a panic attack and completely ruin their day. I mean, I wouldn't even call them without a text to warn them first. You know, that's real friendship."via GIPHYPeople totally related and added their own friendship realities to the mix in the comments:"Say what you will but not talking to a person for months and picking up like you never stopped talking when you finally get together is a new level of friendship unlocked ?❤️??""Texting to warn them before calling is friendship!!!!!!!!!! It is!!!!!!?""I wouldn’t even call them without a text to warn them first is my love language.""Also, you have known each other for 10 years and have 3 photos together.""The shame of how accurate this is ??????"Adult friendships may be challenging to maintain fully, but they're still valuable and research shows that we may be missing out on some of their benefits. According to one analysis of data from the U.S. Census Bureau’s "American Time Use Survey" Americans are spending significantly less time with friends—and more time alone—than we did a decade ago. From 2014 to 2019, the time we spent with friends dropped by 37%. Then the pandemic hit, and we all know how that turned our social lives upside down. The most recent data, from 2021, showed even more of a drop in friend time, from a little over 4 hours a week in 2019 to a little less than 3 hours a week in 2021. Spending time alone doesn't automatically mean feeling lonely—some people genuinely prefer to spend time by themselves—but humans are social creatures in general and research shows we are facing an epidemic of loneliness and isolation. A few reasons might be how increasingly online our lives have become, how anxious and exhausted many of us feel, and the connections that got disrupted during the pandemic. Whatever the reason, a whole lot of people are lonely these days.via GIPHYNurturing friendships in-real-life could be a way to counter that. Focus on quality over quantity. You don't have to have a ton of close friends—focus on the ones you share similar values with and who bring out the best in you. Even if you don't have time to get together often, check in regularly with more than just a meme. Even a simple, "Hey, I'm thinking about you and wondering how you're doing," can go a long way. Scheduling get-togethers on a monthly basis (a first-Saturday-of-the-month set coffee date or something) can make it easier to see one another rather than always trying to coordinate schedules. Long-distance friendships can be trickier, but we do have loads of technology to communicate long-distance and don't underestimate those "We need to plan a get-together" messages. Acknowledging that you miss one another and want to see each other despite the difficulty of actually making it happen means something. Friendships as adults may have some comical quirks, but they're still important to our well-being and life enrichment. Keep sending those memes and get together when you can. You'll rarely regret making the effort. You can find more from Jake Lambert on his Instagram page here.

For many of us, coffee is more than just a beverage—it's a cherished ritual that marks the beginning of our day, a moment of calm before the bustle, or a spark of energy when we need it most. It’s in these moments, cup in hand, that we set the tone for the hours ahead. But have you ever considered how the coffee you choose could impact not just your day, but also your health and the world around you? For example, sustainably sourced coffees can help protect ecosystems and support ethical farming practices. Meanwhile, low-acid coffees can be gentler on your stomach and teeth, reducing discomfort for those with sensitivities. Luckily, Lifeboost Coffee understands the huge impact coffee can have. That’s why they specialize in low-acid, and environmentally responsible coffee that not only enhances your daily ritual but also contributes to a healthier you and a healthier world.Choose coffee that’s better for you When it comes to coffee, what you drink matters—especially if you have a sensitive stomach. Lifeboost Coffee’s low-acid beans are a game changer for those prone to acid reflux or other digestive issues. By carefully selecting and processing these beans to reduce acidity, Lifeboost ensures you can enjoy a smooth, flavorful cup without the discomfort that often accompanies higher-acid coffees. And Acidity isn’t the only thing Lifeboost Coffee gets rid of. They also subject every batch to rigorous third-party testing for over 450 potential contaminants, including toxins, molds, and heavy metals. This commitment to purity ensures that you’re drinking one of the cleanest coffees available. But Lifeboost coffees don’t just subtract bad stuff. They also preserve a lot of good stuff. Because their beans are organically grown at high elevations, they mature naturally. They are then sun-dried and washed with pure spring water. This careful process preserves the beans’ rich nutrients and flavors, resulting in coffee that’s as good for your health as it is for your taste buds.Choose coffee that’s ethical and sustainable Lifeboost Coffee is committed to ethical sourcing, starting with their use of single-origin beans. This approach ensures that each batch of coffee comes from a specific region or farm, which not only enhances the consistency and quality of the coffee but also helps avoid cross-contamination with inferior beans. Supporting single-origin coffee is more than just a quality measure; it’s also about empowering small-scale farmers who are passionate about their craft, ensuring they receive fair compensation for their work. Sustainability is at the core of Lifeboost’s farming practices. Their coffee is shade-grown, which means it’s cultivated under the natural canopy of trees. This method not only protects biodiversity by preserving native flora and fauna but also enhances the quality of the beans, as they mature more slowly and develop richer flavors. Moreover, Lifeboost is committed to Fairly Traded principles, ensuring that farmers are paid fairly and that their communities thrive. By choosing Lifeboost Coffee, you’re supporting sustainable agriculture and ethical practices that make a positive impact on both people and the planet.Say hello to Lifeboost Grata Medium Roast Ready to start exploring Lifeboost Coffee? Their Grata Medium Roast is the perfect jumping off point. This roast is known for its smooth and balanced taste, making it an ideal choice for coffee lovers who appreciate complexity without overwhelming intensity. With every sip, you’ll notice delightful notes of chocolate and nuts, accompanied by a subtle hint of dried fruit. This flavor profile is the result of meticulous roasting, designed to bring out the natural sweetness and depth of the beans. Beyond its exquisite taste, Grata Medium Roast is incredibly versatile. Whether you prefer a pour-over, cold brew, French press, or a classic drip, this roast adapts beautifully to any brewing method, ensuring a consistently enjoyable experience no matter how you like your coffee. But even if you end up not liking Grata Medium Roast, don’t worry. Lifeboost has a “Love Your Coffee” guarantee. Basically, if you’re not completely thrilled with your purchase, they will work with you to find the perfect roast or offer a full refund. Make a difference with every sip If you want to make a positive impact on the world, why not start at the beginning, with your morning ritual? Every purchase of Lifeboost Coffees helps support small-scale farmers and protect precious ecosystems. And because their coffees are low-acid and tested for harmful chemicals, they are as gentle to the environment as they are to your stomach. So visit the Lifeboost Coffee website today, check out their ongoing rewards program, and start exploring how you can elevate your coffee experience today.

Not at all to anyone's surprise, there is a difference between the way Americans do things and the way the British do things. Since platforms like TikTok have made it easy to feel like you're having face-to-face conversations with people in different parts of the word, it's no wonder that these differences can sometimes be magnified.For a while there was a spat online because some Americans took to social media to spill their revelation of beans on toast. Of course it quickly turned into people joking about beans on toast because it's not something that is part of American culture. This set off a firestorm of back and forth commentary of British cuisine versus American cuisine with each arguing their country's food is superior.This same thing happened when the British social media users discovered southern Americans eat biscuits and gravy, and iced tea is a standard beverage. Cultural differences can be fun to discover as long as everyone remains respectful, but this discovery probably trumps them all. Supposedly, British people don't rinse off their dishes when handwashing them and American social media users are having an entire come apart. It's not clear where the claim originated but it quickly spread across social media as confused British people asked why Americans were confused. Someone created a skit showing two guys in the kitchen, one with a clearly British accent and one with a different accent. The British roommate was washing the dishes and skipping the rinsing before putting them in the dish rack to the dismay of the other person. People have been responding to the video confused on both sides–Americans confused about the lack of rinsing and Brits confused about the need to rinse. person washing hand on faucet Photo by Nathan Dumlao on Unsplash Jase from the TikTok account, Jase in America made a video responding to the tags he was getting, "Okay so for some strange reason a lot of Americans have been tagging me in videos about washing dishes in the UK." The man then demonstrates how he washes the dishes which includes the usual steps, filling up the sink with water and adding dish soap. After he places a bowl in the soapy water and scrubs it with a sponge, he then simply places it still fully soapy in the dish rack. He repeats the process with other dishes before asking if he's missing something because he doesn't understand "what's so different in America." @jaseinamerica What’s the difference? ♬ Monkeys Spinning Monkeys - Kevin MacLeod & Kevin The Monkey Another man from the UK that goes by the name Goonie Dad shared a video of him washing dishes and is shocked by the reaction, "this is how I wash up and this is how I've always washed up, I've never known any different and in the last 72 hours it seems like 99% of the world rise their dishes." There's even a video from 2022 that presumably shows someone teasing about people in the UK not rinsing their dishes. But according to a couple of British creators, they rinse their dishes after soaping them up and aren't sure why some are saying they don't. Maybe it's a weirdly specific joke that British creators are pulling on Americans, either way, American creators have concerns while others joke about spices. @gooniedad #Stitch British vs American Washing Dishes @CentralParkTurtle #WashingUp #WashingDishes #UK #Kitchen #WashingUpLiquid #Rinse #Reavtion #America #British ♬ original sound - GoonieDad "Ok, I finally get it...the British DO use a spice........dishwashing liquid," one person exclaims.Another flat out asks if the British are pulling Americans' legs, "Guys, are we being pranked??? Cause no way they see all those bubbles and just...ignore it."Some commenters consulted with each other with one writing, "I was convinced this was an elaborate prank the British TikTok creators were playing on us, but if that's true then my bestie in London is in on the bit because he confirmed." An American living in England concurred, "Texan in England, can confirm I've seen quite a few Brits wash like this. I've taken over washing dishes, my husband is not allowed to wash my dishes anymore," she laughs. @ukbirdcomedy Someone please tell ‘em #fyp #viral #weirdfacts #ukcomedy #ukmemes #britishpeoplebelike ♬ Splish Splash - Bobby Darin A few people couldn't contain their concern, "It’s dirty, soapy, dishwater. Why wouldn’t you want to rinse off dirty water?" While another says, "guys, please rinse. you're eating soap."Even people outside of America chimed in imploring the British creators to rinse their dishes after washing them explaining how they wash them in their own respective countries, "in Indonesia even before we use the plate, we rinse it again.""In Greece, when we wash the dishes, we don't leave them with the soaps, we rinse them," someone shares while another concerned international commenter writes, "In România we pre rinse if it's necessary, wash it thoroughly every side, and then rinse it down, and put it to dry." Giphy "In Nigeria we pre rinse(rinse off particles and oil in the plate) wash with soap and rinse with clean water and continue rinsing until it’s no longer slippery, which can make us rinse 2 times," someone else writes.Well, while a few British people have said they personally rinse their dishes, it's clear not everyone got that memo in the UK or this is the most elaborate multi-year prank ever. If that's the case that takes some serious dedication.

With one simple tweet, Nathalie Gordon had the attention of men and women everywhere. — (@) Women who saw her tweet probably knew more or less what kind of story was coming. Men, on the other hand, were in for an eye-opening ride.Gordon began by recounting a seemingly casual encounter with a man on a bus. — (@) — (@) The conversation between Nathalie and the stranger quickly escalated from casual to obnoxious to downright scary. — (@) "I'm horrified and turn to ask him to stop doing it. He laughs at me," she tweeted next.When she ran to the front of the bus to report the man to the driver, the driver reportedly told her to "sit somewhere else." — (@) The bus driver was no help. "You're a pretty girl, what do you expect?" the driver asked her. Gordon had a pretty powerful answer to that. — (@) — (@) — (@) As Gordon's tweets went viral, similar stories from countless other women poured in. Several women responded about their own run-ins with creeps on public transit. One woman wrote that, in her case, it was the bus driver himself who wouldn't take "no" for an answer, actually following her off the bus one day and insisting on a date."The stories I'm being told [from women] are harrowing," Gordon explained over Twitter direct message. "There's a real sense of hopeless when you see these messages en masse."Then men began responding to Gordon's story, many unthinkingly proving her exact point: They just didn't get it.Quickly, the Not All Men brigade was out in full force. So were the Victim Blamers, and the This Never Happened gang.Some of their responses were truly vile. One man even responded by writing a lengthy screed from the perspective of Gordon's bus driver, in which he tried to explain that the bus driver's right to say "no" to helping a female passenger avoid being sexually harassed or assaulted is what equality really looks like because the bus driver shouldn't have to "fight her battles for her."To them, Gordon has one simple answer: "Men, your input isn't necessary here. Just listen.""Don't find fault or shout your opinion over people talking about actual experiences," she later wrote. "Just listen, read these stories and be a better, kinder, more informed, supportive and understanding man for the women in your lives."Despite the critics and the doubters, Gordon says she came away from the discussion feeling encouraged."For every guy saying something cruel there's 10 rushing to my defence," she explains. "They've recognised that women don't want, need or expect to be saved. We want people standing beside us going 'This is wrong, we need to find a way to stop this from happening.'""I know so many good men and this has confirmed that there are plenty more out there," Gordon says. "I just hope they are as vocal in real life as they are on Twitter because they have such power if they do."This article originally appeared on 5.11.17

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