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Charlamagne Claims With Straight Face That Letitia James Investigation Is ‘Just Retaliation’ By Trump
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Charlamagne Claims With Straight Face That Letitia James Investigation Is ‘Just Retaliation’ By Trump

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Pam Bondi Describes ‘Horrific’ Scene Outside Of Jewish Museum Where 2 Israeli Embassy Staff Were Killed
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Pam Bondi Describes ‘Horrific’ Scene Outside Of Jewish Museum Where 2 Israeli Embassy Staff Were Killed

'Prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law'
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Trees Can Warn Us When Volcanos Are Ready to Erupt–and NASA Satellites Can Read Their Signals
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Trees Can Warn Us When Volcanos Are Ready to Erupt–and NASA Satellites Can Read Their Signals

For the 10% of the global population that live near an active and potentially dangerous volcano, help may be forthcoming from an unlikely source: trees. In advance of volcanic eruptions, carbon dioxide gases are released from the magma below the earth. The trees absorbing it become green and vibrant, a change that if tracked by […] The post Trees Can Warn Us When Volcanos Are Ready to Erupt–and NASA Satellites Can Read Their Signals appeared first on Good News Network.
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Locus Magazine: Helping Us Find Ourselves
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Locus Magazine: Helping Us Find Ourselves

Featured Essays Locus Magazine Locus Magazine: Helping Us Find Ourselves Locus is a map connecting us to our community, and they need our help. By Fran Wilde | Published on May 22, 2025 Comment 0 Share New Share I grew up reading Gardner Dozois’ Best Of anthologies, but had no idea that the vibrant Philadelphia speculative scene thrived only a short train ride from my high school. Finding anything beyond my local bookstore (it was an amazing place) and library (ditto) that connected my love of science fiction and fantasy with community was difficult, in part because I didn’t know where to look. Granted, I was trying to do this before social media or even fan boards were very common (*sounds of dinosaurs roaming the land*).  Once I found those, I discovered online writing workshops, Viable Paradise, and Locus Magazine, and the world opened up.   When someone is new to a city, or even returning to a familiar city that has changed in the time since they last lived there, finding one’s way is sometimes a funny, complex thing. There’s either so much to look at, so many signs and directions, or not enough. Even with a phone and a favorite wayfinding app, it’s disorienting. Plus, one might wonder if they’re missing a lot of the good stuff—the places and people only the locals know about. Same thing goes for finding our way through genre communities, it turns out. Even for those of us who’ve grown up reading Best Of anthologies, and maybe even those who were practically born at a con, navigating the ever-changing speculative community sometimes feels like a job all on its own.  For those of us who love it here, it’s a complex job, especially as many online wayfinders and apps grow less and less useful for finding our way. Locus—for me—is a map to us. It is, and has been for many years, a way to find out about new authors and imprints, new events, new opportunities. It is a chance to cheer for friends and peers when their faces appear in the pages, to read about what inspires a writer or an editor, and to watch our layered community grow and change. From its gorgeous covers to its reviews and the in-person moments (interviews, meet-ups, those amazing photographs of conventions), Locus staff and creators are out there making sure we see ourselves, stay informed—and even find ways to connect on deeper and better levels. They do interviews, take photos, remind us (thank you, Arley) to respond to that questionnaire, and treat our work and us with the care of cartographers.  As a teacher, I recommend that my students investigate the (deeply discounted) student subscription, just to get an idea of the lay of the land. I ask them to check out the profiles of authors they’ve never read before within the pages of a back issue. I suggest they pick an event listing and try to go. Using a Locus subscription is a professional skill, and I want them to acquire it early.  Taken month-by-month, the editorials and articles, the classifieds, and everything in between, is a vital guide to the community. Taken as a whole, over the arc of its ongoing history, Locus is a visceral meta-map of who we’ve been and who we can become.  Locus is important to me because it is our community’s map to us. And every time I open it, I find new places I want to explore.[end-mark] Locus Magazine is running their annual fundraiser from May 5th to May 31st. Go here to donate, subscribe, or get one of their amazing donation gifts. The post <i>Locus Magazine</i>: Helping Us Find Ourselves appeared first on Reactor.
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Andor’s Participation in One Tired Trope Is Uniquely Infuriating
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Andor’s Participation in One Tired Trope Is Uniquely Infuriating

Featured Essays Star Wars Andor’s Participation in One Tired Trope Is Uniquely Infuriating Those final shots really pull the rug out from under the whole thing. By Emmet Asher-Perrin | Published on May 22, 2025 Image: Lucasfilm Comment 0 Share New Share Image: Lucasfilm Since its premiere in 2022, Andor is a series that critics and fans haven’t been able to stop talking about. The show’s combination of aesthetic grit, prestige TV-style scripting, immaculate design work, and tonal deviance from the source material had a certain stripe of viewer spellbound. And though the concept was sadly compressed from several seasons into only two, the show still managed to tell the (highly abridged) story it was intent upon. Andor is miraculous for the fact that it exists at all. But it still managed to throw me right out of its narrative in its final frames with a choice that just about ruined the entire experience. [Spoilers below, for the endings of Andor and Star Wars: Rebels] The final moments of Andor feature Bix Caleen, Cassian’s erstwhile paramour, safe on Mina-Rau—the planet she’d once sheltered on with her fellow Ferrix refugees. She is seen carrying an infant child, assuring the babe that everything will be alright, despite the audience’s knowledge that the father of her child is flying toward his destiny. A destiny that ultimately leads to his death. Cassian Andor has a child he doesn’t know exists, and Bix will raise that child in a galaxy (eventually) made safer by the man she loved. She will never see him again, and he will never meet this member of his family. It isn’t an uncommon story: in fact, it’s told over and over, with only very minor variation. Man heroically dead. Woman with child. Their baby: a physical representation of the future, but also of the love between two people, one of whom must go on in the other’s absence. It’s the worst story. And I cannot believe that Andor chose to end on that thought, because it undercuts so much of the meaning in the story it already told us. Let’s not forget: Star Wars is, has always been, and will always be a story about parents and their children. The original narrative of the Star Wars trilogy centers around the question of whether a son can save his father. The Expanded Universe novels and the sequel trilogy asked the reverse question of whether a father and mother could save their son. The sequel trilogy also asked (whether we wanted it to or not) if a granddaughter could fight her grandfather’s legacy within herself. The Mandalorian and The Bad Batch showed us how becoming a parent on accident could be the greatest thing that ever happened to you. Rogue One showed us a daughter who made up for her father’s greatest mistake. There are countless other examples I could list here—the point is, Star Wars is never lacking for stories that center on familial dynamics. Andor already had many stories about parents and children built into it: Mon Mothma’s tension with her daughter; Cassian’s kidnapping and adoption by Maarva and Clem; Luthen’s sort-of adoption of Kleya. There’s Dedra’s lack of parentage (with Partagaz serving as a warped substitute), Syril’s nightmare relationship with his narcissist mother, Lonni’s fear for his newborn daughter—again, I could just keep going here. The series is not shortchanging its audience on parent-kid angst. I have three points of pain in the decision to end the series on a shot of Cassian’s secret baby and they are: it undermines the emotional throughline that leads the series directly into Rogue One; it undercuts another Star Wars narrative that did the exact same plot better; and it’s a tired and thoughtless storytelling choice with tons of casual sexism and trite thoughts about life and legacy built into it. And I’m gonna get into every single one of these points because I’m on a roll and can’t stop. The entire premise of Andor as a series was that it would end on a lead-up into the events of Rogue One. That was always the plan, one that had been touted for years by the creative team. And yet, showrunner Tony Gilroy claims that the choice to end the show on a shot of Bix and the baby was due to his desire to “end on hope”: “It’s a very rigorous ride. We’ve done all kinds of things in this show all the way through, but it would be a crime against nature to not finish with something hopeful, because what else do we have?” I find it telling that Bix’s survival itself, her creation of a home, was not deemed hopeful enough. It could have something to do with the fact that her character was thinner on the ground than drops of rainwater throughout the second season. But it sure does say something about how Gilroy thinks hope is communicated to his audience. It’s more aggravating for the fact that leading directly into Rogue One makes the film the actual ending of this narrative thought. Which is ironic as all get-out because Rogue One does, in fact, end on hope—in concept (the Rebellion gaining traction in this fight), in action (Princess Leia receives the Death Star plans), and in the actual honest-to-the-Whills word (Leia is asked what she was given, and her uncanny computer-generated visage says “…hope”). The story already ended on hope nine years ago when the movie came out! We saw the hope! The hope is both implicit and explicit! Why do we need extra hope?? Oh, is it because we’re supposed to be sad because we know Cassian is about to die? …Weird. For some reason, I thought that was the entire point of making this show. I had plenty of quibbles with Rogue One when it first debuted, but one thing that I appreciated without reservation was its choice to show how many good people die for their causes. Because it’s a real cost to fighting fascism, and it’s not something that Star Wars spends a lot of time examining. The series is, by its conceptual nature, a more upbeat sandbox to play in. Star Wars is a place where untold atrocities are committed every second, but we’re all mostly in it for neurotic robots, cannibal teddy bears, gorgeous space dogfights, laser swords, and bad jokes. Rogue One does end on hope, but the hope is won with sacrifice, and the sacrifice isn’t made by tertiary characters or a villain with a change of heart—it’s made by every single central character of the film. The point of watching Andor was learning how its eponymous character got to a place where he was willing to make that sacrifice. Hope wasn’t what was needed here; I tuned in to feel that loss all over again. And that rug got pulled so hard, I heard a slapstick whistle in my ears. Which brings me to the other Star Wars story that Andor (unknowingly or not) is ripping off with this choice: its animated contemporary, Rebels. Set in roughly the same part of the timeline, Rebels followed the crew of the Ghost as they slowly folded their freedom fighting activities into the official Rebellion. At the head of this crew was pilot Hera Syndulla and her former-Jedi partner, Kanan Jarrus. The duo were effectively mom and dad to a crew of scrappy misfits (and they were some of the best parents on Star Wars record), and the show was never shy about the fact that they adored each other. The only trouble was that Hera was devoted to the Rebellion’s work, while Kanan often wished they could settle down and live their lives. Screenshot: Lucasfilm While Kanan grudgingly came around to Hera’s choices for their crew, the two did acknowledge that they were moving toward a joint future. And then, of course, Kanan died on a mission rescuing Hera. The fanbase grieved, and the show sped toward its inevitable finale. When the series ended and showed us where each character wound up in the coming years, a heartwarming coda was revealed: Hera and Kanan had a son named Jacen. You know why that’s moving, despite the annoying trope-ness of it all? Because there was indication beforehand that having a family was something that both of these characters wanted together. They were already parenting two emotionally distraught teens (and sometimes Zeb) before any of this happened. They enjoyed being a team—this kind of team specifically. And it’s heartbreaking that Hera doesn’t get to have that life with Kanan, but the audience knows she would likely rather have a piece of that future than none of it at all. That’s hopeful. And that’s all well and good, but I still cannot stand when writers make this narrative choice. It’s necessarily predicated on the woman being left behind—and yet the reveal still treated like a fun little surprise. Because a woman can be pregnant, but it usually takes a while to find out, and sometimes no one will know but her! Gotcha! Story kapow! Stop using womb mechanics as a way of planting big “reveals” in your story. It’s insulting, demeaning, and also not as inspiring as the writers seem to think it is. It reduces one of the most complex aspects of human existence into a cutesy footnote. Here’s another thought: If you’re going down that road, you should be spending a considerable swath of your narrative digging into what that feels like—to be a woman who has suddenly realized that she’s going to bear her partner’s child in his absence. To be subjected to all the fear and sorrow and unimaginable pain and loneliness that you would go through in having to carry, give birth to, and raise that child on your own. Because if you don’t dig into that, what you’re essentially saying is, this child only exists for the sake of their father. Their mom doesn’t really come into it. Which is cowardly in the extreme, by the way. But I guess bringing up the thought that raising a child alone isn’t all sunshine and daisies isn’t very uplifting, is it? Again, I keep getting stuck on the idea that Gilroy thought the existence of a child was more hopeful. The use of that word specifically. Because it speaks to this belief that children are a piece of their parents—that it’s hopeful because this means a part of Cassian lives on, that his legacy continues. Of course, a person’s child contains a literal piece of their genetics. But that child is their own autonomous being—they are not a convenient 50% slice of each parent. Even the ways a child might remind you of their genetic family are often a projection, or the result of raising that child within the confines of the same family. And I’m not saying this to suggest that people shouldn’t feel like their children are a part of them, only to point out that suggesting a person “lives on” through their children is in many ways a disservice, particularly if that child never knows said parent. All of which is to say that Cassian Andor is not living on through that child—Cassian Andor is dead. Can everyone actually sit with for a while? Because it’s a fact that this little coda is meant to conveniently push aside. The entire series builds on the knowledge of an inexorable end, then literally bars its viewers from feeling any of it. All of Cassian’s potential, his purpose, his uniqueness, his history, has been lost and cannot be regained. I know that death is the most difficult aspect of existence to reckon with, but it feels like such a mockery to suggest that this can all be ameliorated with the presence of a brand new life. Bix doesn’t have Cassian because she had this child—Cassian is gone. And that child might bring solace to her down the years, but that’s also a heavy burden to place on a kid. Screenshot: Lucasfilm What’s more, it’s just the latest example in a long list. At least Morgan Stark got to spend time with Tony. (But Pepper had to say goodbye to him a dozen different ways, each more horrific than the last.) Zoe Washburn got that piece of Wash whether she wanted it or not. (She didn’t, by the way, at least not when they discussed it—she thought their lives were too chaotic for that.) Elizabeth Swann finally got the pirate queen life of her dreams… only to wind up with a young kid, waiting for her Davy Jones’d husband on a random beach for their five-year hookup in the tag scene. (Fans like to believe that she stayed a pirate queen even so, but that clearly wasn’t what the writers were aiming for.) Beverly Crusher raised Picard’s son on the down-low for decades, and all the work she put in alone was incidental by the time they appeared back in Jean-Luc’s life. (Only his father’s love had any meaning to him when the Borg queen assimilated Jack, despite the fact that they’d only hung out, like, twice.) Women are not vessels for the legacies of dead men. It’s not hopeful to suggest that someone’s death is made right or bearable by the presence of progeny. There is nothing wrong with sitting in the knowledge of death and learning how to welcome it—in fact, it’s something that every person needs to learn how to bear. I guess this is a long-winded way of saying that whenever I rewatch Andor, I’ll be skipping that final scene. But it sounds petty to say so, and my desire in that is anything but petty. I had hoped (there’s that word again) that the creative team involved with this show understood the importance of letting its audience wrestle with difficult ideas. But in the end, this show turned out to be more afraid of its own premise than Return of the Jedi—a story where a father dies, and his children’s survival does nothing to erase the tragedy of that simple truth.[end-mark] The post <i>Andor</i>’s Participation in One Tired Trope Is Uniquely Infuriating appeared first on Reactor.
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Trump Media’s Truth+ Expands to More Devices in Alternative Media Push
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If you're tired of censorship and dystopian threats against civil liberties, subscribe to Reclaim The Net. Trump Media & Technology Group Corp has announced a major expansion of its streaming service Truth+, bringing its full library of live and on-demand content to Roku TVs, as well as Samsung connected TVs manufactured since 2022 and LG connected TVs. The update marks a significant step in the platform’s rollout and reflects its broader strategy to offer alternatives to mainstream media and Big Tech-controlled platforms. Truth+, is operated by the same company behind the social media platform Truth Social and the upcoming financial services brand Truth.Fi, describes itself as a destination for “family-friendly programming” aimed at Americans seeking a different perspective on news, entertainment, and culture. The streaming service features a mix of live television, faith-based content, weather updates, documentaries, and opinion-driven shows, alongside a growing video-on-demand library. Available across major devices including iOS, Android, Apple TV, Amazon Fire TV, and web browsers, Truth+ continues to build out its cross-platform accessibility. Connected TV users can now download the Truth+ app directly from their device’s app store and sign in using either a QR code, passcode, or their Truth Social credentials. As digital audiences grow more segmented and skeptical of mainstream news and entertainment providers, platforms like Truth+ are tapping into a demand for ideologically distinct and independently hosted media. Trump Media describes its offering as an alternative to “biased news channels,” and the content library reflects that positioning. The platform’s programming aims to resonate with audiences who feel underserved or misrepresented by larger networks. Truth+ is built on a custom-designed, multi-site Content Delivery Network (CDN), using proprietary servers, routers, and software. Trump Media states that this infrastructure allows the platform to operate independently from third-party tech providers, reducing the risk of service disruption or censorship. Advanced features include live TV rewind with visual thumbnails, seven-day catch-up viewing, network DVR capabilities, and a Spanish-language interface option. The company says it is currently in the beta phase of the rollout and is collecting user feedback as it scales up operations. Truth+ is one component of Trump Media’s larger push into digital services. Alongside its flagship social platform and the forthcoming financial tech brand Truth.Fi, the company is aiming to build an ecosystem that supports free expression and ideological diversity across multiple sectors. TMTG’s stated mission is to “end Big Tech’s assault on free speech by opening up the internet and giving people their voices back.” If you're tired of censorship and dystopian threats against civil liberties, subscribe to Reclaim The Net. The post Trump Media’s Truth+ Expands to More Devices in Alternative Media Push appeared first on Reclaim The Net.
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Hmm. Elon Musk Is Pulling Back From Politics...
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Hmm. Elon Musk Is Pulling Back From Politics...
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CNN: 'Can't Deny' Jewish Museum Shooter Yelled 'Free Palestine'—'MAY Be a Hate Crime'
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It's the same old pattern. An obvious hate crime. An obvious act of terror. Yet public authorities and the media are reticent about calling it for what it is. Worried about offending certain groups, and being accused of hate themselves? We see the same phenomenon in response to the murder of two Israeli embassy staffers outside the Capital Jewish Museum in DC last night by a man yelling "Free, Free Palestine," and who told an eyewitness, "I did it for Palestine. I did it for Gaza." On CNN This Morning, CNN security analyst Juliette Kayyem, a former Obama DHS appointee, said: "We can't deny [that] the suspect said Free Palestine. He killed two Israelis. There may be either a hate crime or a federal crime, of course." Her mention of a "federal crime" was a reference to possible terrorism charges. There "may be" a hate crime? Funny, Kayyem wasn't nearly so reticent in talking about Donald Trump.  In this Mother Jones article entitled "How Trump Unleashed a Domestic Terrorism Movement—And What Experts Say Must Be Done to Defeat It," the expert most cited in support of its "domestic terrorism" accusation was Kayyem. Excerpt [emphasis added]: “The term ‘dog whistle’ is too benign here. This is true incitement,” [Kayyem] says. “This is an understanding of how language is going to be interpreted for action.” Most media and political analysts hesitated to talk about Trump in such stark terms, but Kayyem concluded that Trump’s behavior had to be called out for what it was: The president, she told me in December, was 'promoting terrorism.'”   So even the far-left Mother Jones seemed surprised that in accusing Trump of "promoting terrorism," Kayyem was willing to go further than "most media and political analysts." But Kayyem suddenly turns shy when it comes to calling the DC shooting for what it was: an unspeakable antisemitic hate crime.  Last year, our Nicholas Fondacaro caught Kayyem demanding that universities like her Harvard alma mater "allow space" for pro-Hamas demonstrators. Kayyem accused police on campus dealing with the mayhem of "terrifying students" who were just "expressing their dismay with the war.” Note: Over at MSNBC, there was a similar reluctance to tell the truth of the matter.  On today's Morning Joe, instead of reporting the obvious fact of a hate crime, NBC News reporter Alice Barr hid behind the statement that "Investigators are working to pin down whether this was a hate crime, or potentially, an act of terrorism." Video here.  Here's the transcript. CNN This Morning 5/22/25 6:00 am EDT AUDIE CORNISH: I want to start with that deadly shooting on the streets of the nation's capital. So this happened last night, as two Israeli embassy staffers were leaving the Capital Jewish Museum.  Police say a man was seen pacing back and forth prior to approaching, and then he opened fire. Police have identified the suspect as 30-year-old Elias Rodriguez from Chicago.  Video obtained by CNN shows the moment of his arrest. He was chanting, Free, Free Palestine.  ELIAS RODRIGUEZ: Free, Free Palestine! Free, Free Palestine!  CORNISH: There was an eyewitness who told CNN about her interaction with the suspect.  EYE WITNESS: I say, do you know where you are? He doesn't say anything. And I say, you're at, like, a Jewish museum. And immediately he takes a few steps back and he starts yelling, I did it, I did it, talking about shooting and killing the innocent people outside who had just attended the event, who had just left. And he's screaming, I did it, I did it, I did it for Gaza, I did it for Palestine, Free Palestine.  CORNISH: So right now, CNN also learning new information about the victims. This morning, the embassy posted a photo of them. The Israeli ambassador to the U.S. said they were a couple about to be engaged.  YECHIEL LEITER: The couple that was gunned down tonight in the name of Free Palestine, it's a young couple about to be engaged. The young man purchased a ring this week with the intention of proposing to his girlfriend next week in Jerusalem.  . . .  CORNISH: Joining me now, former assistant secretary with the Department of Homeland Security and CNN senior national security analyst Juliette Kayyem. Juliette, thanks for being with us this morning.  JULIETTER KAYYEM: Yes, thank you for having me.  CORNISH: We played tape earlier of the suspect yelling, Free Palestine. Talk about how law enforcement assesses the hate crime or terrorism aspect of this.  KAYYEM: Yes, and this is sort of early, obviously, in this horrible, essentially, assassination from what we can tell. And so there's going to be two pieces to it.  This is, of course, the homicide in the streets of DC or outside the museum. So the Washington police are going to be investigating it as such.  . . .  The other piece, of course, is the piece that we can't deny. Which is obviously the suspect said Free Palestine. He killed two Israelis. There may be either a hate crime or a federal crime, of course. 
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We're all 'too busy' to eat dinner as a family — but we should do it anyway
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We're all 'too busy' to eat dinner as a family — but we should do it anyway

What does it mean to eat dinner together as a family? Why do we do it? Or rather, why did we do it? It seems the number of families who eat dinner together every night is shrinking. I remember that if the phone rang during that time, my parents would look at one another shocked. 'Who would be calling during dinner?'It feels like every year it becomes more rare. The image of a mother, father, and a couple kids sitting around a table, full plates in front of them and a few serving dishes in the middle, is becoming an old-fashioned image in our day and age.Today, families are too busy to have dinner together. Too much work, too many obligations, too many schedules. Dad has meetings, mom has to go to the gym, the kids have practice, dinner will have to wait. Grab and goA house today is more a place for atomized individuals to rest their heads at night before heading out and on their way every morning. It’s more a hostel and less a home. Breakfast out the door, lunch on the go, dinner on your own. What kind of family life is this?In the preindustrial world, families saw a lot of one another. Life wasn’t a fairy tale back then, times were tough, I am not sure people were always so chipper or joyful, but families did spend a lot of time together. That’s just how it was. Life in the modern world, on the other hand, is hectic. Today, families are pulled apart by the chaos of modern life: the activities that never stop, the nagging sense that we might be able to “have it all.”An antidote to atomizationFor a while in the 20th century, families coped with the fracturing chaos of modern life by eating dinner together every night. It was a standard thing. All across American society, families ate dinner together. Not just on Sunday or Saturday. Every night. Practices, classes, and rehearsals were scheduled around dinner. People weren’t forced to choose between dinner and some prescheduled activity or obligation. Even deep into the '90s, there was a sense that you shouldn’t call anyone between 6:30 and 8:30 in the evening. That was when people ate dinner. There was an assumption everyone was eating with their families. I remember that if the phone rang during that time, my parents would look at one another shocked. “Who would be calling during dinner?”Dinner was the final sacred realm. The last untouched territory. Everyone might be out on their own all day, but at 6:00, everyone came back together as a family again. Kids would tell one another, “I’ve got to go, I have to be back for dinner.” The street was quieter at those times. The world slowed for a couple hours. For the sanctity of dinner, the sanctity of family.This is gone today. That societal detente has been eroded. Dinner is no longer respected. Making dinner matter againNow, parents eat separately because it’s easier. Kids eat on the bus on the way back from the volleyball tournament. Families go out to eat, and they all sit around the table scrolling their iPhones not saying a single word to one another. Today, for most, dinner doesn’t matter. But it can. Even though society tries to fracture the family in 100 ways, we don’t have to go along with it. We still have free will. We can choose a different way. We can still come together as a family for dinner every single night. That’s what we do in our family. We don’t watch TV during dinner, we don’t look at our phones during dinner, we don’t have separate dinners for mom and dad. We all sit down together every night.The freedom of obligation It’s not always easy. It’s hard with little kids. Every parent knows that. The messes, the cajoling, trying to teach manners while eating at the same time. Often, it’s not exactly a relaxing vibe. It would be so much easier to throw something together for the kids, sit them at the table, then go in the other room and scroll the timeline on my phone. It would be so much easier to not block off that time every night. I would have more freedom if we didn’t eat dinner together. But I would be missing something important. I would be missing dinner together. Our culture is what we do. Eating dinner together is a part of our culture. Eating dinner every night with no other distractions is good. Even when it’s bad, it’s good. It’s not about grand meals or perfectly prepared dishes. It’s about something deeper. Eating dinner together is about coming back together at the end of the day, sitting around the table, and looking at each other in the eye — remembering that we are a family, thanking God for the food in front of us and also for those around us. That’s what eating dinner as a family is about.
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Anti-Israel social media users praise slaying of Israeli embassy staff in DC
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Anti-Israel social media users praise slaying of Israeli embassy staff in DC

Some social media users on X and Instagram are celebrating the killings of two Israeli embassy staffers, Yaron Lischinsky and Sarah Milgrim, who were shot outside of the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington, D.C., on Wednesday night.On Lischinsky's X account, multiple users have replied to his pinned post, elated at the news he was gunned down while walking with his girlfriend in D.C.'s downtown in what appears to be a targeted attack.Rodriguez has a long history of being involved with far-left groups and causes over the years. — (@) Similarly, on a video of a press conference about the shooting that was posted to Instagram, the comment section was flooded with people saying, "Free, free Palestine," and wishes of eternal suffering on the couple.A friend of Lischinsky revealed he was a "devout Christian" who "loved America. He was excited about the future, about finally visiting Texas, and about the life he and his beloved fiancée were building together. I was supposed to meet her today."RELATED: Chicago Marxist yells 'Free, free Palestine' after 'brutal terrorist attack' on Israeli staffers in DC The suspected gunman is 30-year-old Elias Rodriguez, from Chicago, Illinois. Witnesses say after the shooting, Rodriguez ran into the Jewish event Lischinsky and Milgrim were leaving from and asked for water. Rodriguez was then caught on video with a red keffiyeh and shouting, "Free, free Palestine!" while being taken into custody by responding police.Rodriguez has a long history of being involved with far-left groups and causes over the years, including at one point being a part of the Party for Socialism and Liberation. The PSL has been one of the many organizations that has assembled anti-U.S. and anti-Israel protests across the country in the aftermath of Hamas' terrorist attacks in Israel on October 7, 2023. Sometimes, those protests become violent or disruptive, requiring police to intervene."We reject any attempt to associate the PSL with the DC shooting. Elias Rodriguez is not a member of the PSL. He had a brief association with one branch of the PSL that ended in 2017. We know of no contact with him in over 7 years. We have nothing to do with this shooting and do not support it," PSL said in a statement.Like Blaze News? Bypass the censors, sign up for our newsletters, and get stories like this direct to your inbox. Sign up here!
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