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The Rats Are Fleeing the Sinking S.S. Biden
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THE SECRET COVENANT OF THE NWO, TRAITORS & PUPPETS — Chris James
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from SGT Report: Christopher James knows the TRUTH about the TRAITORS and the demonic masters who control them. They are all part of the Secret Covenant, and once you read it you’ll understand their once hidden plan is to control, poison and ultimately kill ALL of us. So you’d better fight back like your life […]
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Secret key to Biden’s Chinese invasion is a shadowy place called the ‘Darién Gap’ and dark forces are behind it…
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from Revolver News: As the 2024 elections take bizarre twists and turns, there’s a major spotlight shining on the invasion at the US border—so much so that it’s now a key election issue. Kamala Harris, the possible replacement for Joe Biden, holds the title of “Border Czar” and is overseeing this treasonous invasion, which means […]
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Finding Joy in Playing by the Rules –  Encouragement for Today – July 8, 2024
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Finding Joy in Playing by the Rules –  Encouragement for Today – July 8, 2024

July 8, 2024 Finding Joy in Playing by the RulesKRISTIE ANYABWILE Lee en español "but his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night." Psalm 1:2 (ESV)  My neighborhood recently installed speed bumps. At first, I was happily relieved because they encourage responsible driving and help keep our neighborhood safe. But they have also become pretty annoying. I try to drive over them carefully, but the bumps jostle my coffee. They seem to punish responsible drivers because of the offenses of a few. Instead of embracing why it's good to have them, I've found myself navigating around them at times. The speed bumps (and my reactions to them) have reminded me we've got this weird double standard with rules - they're cool if they suit us but a nuisance when they don't. We're all guilty of this dance with rules. Some we follow dutifully; others we brush off like they’re no big deal. The rules that cause inconvenience, don't seem to apply to our situation, or don't make sense to us often feel burdensome. But God doesn't stand for our fickleness with His rules. When it comes to His law, He’s got one simple expectation: obedience fueled by delight. How is it possible for God's laws to bring delight to the people commanded to keep them? It's not just about being happy - it's about being eager and joyful in doing what God asks of us. We find this delight in our heavenly Father, who asks us to love, give, sacrifice and even suffer for Him. We don't glory in pain. We glory in God, who suffers with us. We don't gloat about our love. We gloat about God's love poured into our hearts by His Spirit. We don't sacrifice to bring attention to ourselves. We bring all attention to Christ's sacrifice on our behalf. Scripture also helps us with our heart posture toward God's commands. In Deuteronomy 30:11-20, Moses exhorted the Israelites to choose life by obeying God’s commands, emphasizing that obedience leads to blessing. Similarly, Psalm 1:2 celebrates God's law as a source of delight and wisdom: "His delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night." If we know God is good and all He does is good, we can delight in the reality that God's laws are good for us. They reflect God's standard of holiness and perfection, keep us from sin, and show us our hearts so we might repent, walking in a manner worthy of those who have put their faith in Christ. By slowly and consistently meditating on God's commands, reading, memorizing and remembering His Word throughout our day, we'll see the joyful blessings God intends for us through our obedience. We'll grow in intimacy with the Lord - knowing Him better, loving Him more deeply, and finding great joy in playing by God's rules. God, thank You for Your Word. Thank You for giving me commands to obey that are good for me. Direct me in the path of Your commands, where I find joy and grace from You. Teach me to meditate on Your Word throughout my day so I might walk in joyful obedience. In Jesus' Name, Amen. OUR FAVORITE THINGS Have you ever skipped over or given up on books of the Bible like Numbers or Leviticus? These laws, rules and rituals can feel daunting and confusing. Kristie Anyabwile invites you to join her in understanding the often-overlooked Old Testament books of the law with her new six-week Bible study, Delighting in God's Law: Old Testament Commands and Why They Matter Today. You don’t have to be daunted by His law. You can be delighted by it! ENGAGE Connect with Kristie Anyabwile over on Instagram! FOR DEEPER STUDY Deuteronomy 30:14-16, "But the word is very near you. It is in your mouth and in your heart, so that you can do it. ‘See, I have set before you today life and good, death and evil. If you obey the commandments of the LORD your God that I command you today, by loving the LORD your God, by walking in his ways, and by keeping his commandments and his statutes and his rules, then you shall live and multiply, and the LORD your God will bless you in the land that you are entering to take possession of it’" (ESV). Reflect on your attitude toward God's commands. Are there areas where you need to renew your commitment to delight in His commands? Share with us in the comments! © 2024 by Kristie Anyabwile. All rights reserved. Proverbs 31 MinistriesP.O. Box 3189 Matthews, NC 28106 www.Proverbs31.org The post Finding Joy in Playing by the Rules –  Encouragement for Today – July 8, 2024 appeared first on GodUpdates.
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Finding Joy in Playing by the Rules –  Encouragement for Today – July 8, 2024
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Finding Joy in Playing by the Rules –  Encouragement for Today – July 8, 2024

July 8, 2024 Finding Joy in Playing by the RulesKRISTIE ANYABWILE Lee en español "but his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night." Psalm 1:2 (ESV)  My neighborhood recently installed speed bumps. At first, I was happily relieved because they encourage responsible driving and help keep our neighborhood safe. But they have also become pretty annoying. I try to drive over them carefully, but the bumps jostle my coffee. They seem to punish responsible drivers because of the offenses of a few. Instead of embracing why it's good to have them, I've found myself navigating around them at times. The speed bumps (and my reactions to them) have reminded me we've got this weird double standard with rules - they're cool if they suit us but a nuisance when they don't. We're all guilty of this dance with rules. Some we follow dutifully; others we brush off like they’re no big deal. The rules that cause inconvenience, don't seem to apply to our situation, or don't make sense to us often feel burdensome. But God doesn't stand for our fickleness with His rules. When it comes to His law, He’s got one simple expectation: obedience fueled by delight. How is it possible for God's laws to bring delight to the people commanded to keep them? It's not just about being happy - it's about being eager and joyful in doing what God asks of us. We find this delight in our heavenly Father, who asks us to love, give, sacrifice and even suffer for Him. We don't glory in pain. We glory in God, who suffers with us. We don't gloat about our love. We gloat about God's love poured into our hearts by His Spirit. We don't sacrifice to bring attention to ourselves. We bring all attention to Christ's sacrifice on our behalf. Scripture also helps us with our heart posture toward God's commands. In Deuteronomy 30:11-20, Moses exhorted the Israelites to choose life by obeying God’s commands, emphasizing that obedience leads to blessing. Similarly, Psalm 1:2 celebrates God's law as a source of delight and wisdom: "His delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night." If we know God is good and all He does is good, we can delight in the reality that God's laws are good for us. They reflect God's standard of holiness and perfection, keep us from sin, and show us our hearts so we might repent, walking in a manner worthy of those who have put their faith in Christ. By slowly and consistently meditating on God's commands, reading, memorizing and remembering His Word throughout our day, we'll see the joyful blessings God intends for us through our obedience. We'll grow in intimacy with the Lord - knowing Him better, loving Him more deeply, and finding great joy in playing by God's rules. God, thank You for Your Word. Thank You for giving me commands to obey that are good for me. Direct me in the path of Your commands, where I find joy and grace from You. Teach me to meditate on Your Word throughout my day so I might walk in joyful obedience. In Jesus' Name, Amen. OUR FAVORITE THINGS Have you ever skipped over or given up on books of the Bible like Numbers or Leviticus? These laws, rules and rituals can feel daunting and confusing. Kristie Anyabwile invites you to join her in understanding the often-overlooked Old Testament books of the law with her new six-week Bible study, Delighting in God's Law: Old Testament Commands and Why They Matter Today. You don’t have to be daunted by His law. You can be delighted by it! ENGAGE Connect with Kristie Anyabwile over on Instagram! FOR DEEPER STUDY Deuteronomy 30:14-16, "But the word is very near you. It is in your mouth and in your heart, so that you can do it. ‘See, I have set before you today life and good, death and evil. If you obey the commandments of the LORD your God that I command you today, by loving the LORD your God, by walking in his ways, and by keeping his commandments and his statutes and his rules, then you shall live and multiply, and the LORD your God will bless you in the land that you are entering to take possession of it’" (ESV). Reflect on your attitude toward God's commands. Are there areas where you need to renew your commitment to delight in His commands? Share with us in the comments! © 2024 by Kristie Anyabwile. All rights reserved. Proverbs 31 MinistriesP.O. Box 3189 Matthews, NC 28106 www.Proverbs31.org The post Finding Joy in Playing by the Rules –  Encouragement for Today – July 8, 2024 appeared first on GodUpdates.
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Economic Tug-Of-War: Do Trump’s Policies Favor Average Americans Despite Financial Sector’s Fears?
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A Prayer to Slow Down This Summer - Your Daily Prayer - July 8
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A Prayer to Slow Down This Summer - Your Daily Prayer - July 8

Take time to rest, restore, and relax. Prioritize family meals around the table, slow Saturday morning coffee on your back porch bird watching, and make space for friends to hang out and enjoy God’s good gift of companionship as we find our satisfaction in the Lord and His blessings.
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How Hellion Teenagers Sparked Revival in a Small West Virginia Town
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Twenty-five years ago this month, a full-page advertisement appeared in the middle of a small-town newspaper in Berkeley Springs, West Virginia. The ad showed a cartoon of Jesus in the style of the TV show South Park. He was standing on top of a globe, wearing only shorts and a pair of boxing gloves. His fists were raised, like he’d just gone 12 rounds with somebody. Immediately, the 663 residents of Berkeley Springs started asking questions. The image of Jesus seemed blasphemous, and the list of speakers didn’t help. They knew those names—Matt Carter, Geary Burch, Garrett Kell, and Jason Seville were high school and college boys who played sports, chased girls, and partied on the weekends. Kell’s Sunday school teacher, Tom Close, rarely saw him in church. Courtesy of Garrett Kell “He was a hellion,” Close said. And sure enough, a rumor sprang up that “Garrett’s throwing a party at the church!” But when some folks complained in letters to the editor, Close wasn’t among them. And on July 30, he showed up at the Christ Night Revival. “God can change anybody,” he said. Unless the teens proved him wrong, he’d take them at face value. “I had a feeling I knew what was going to happen,” he said. “I’d taken kids to different events—Christian concerts and things like that. They’d get some loud music—drums and guitars. They’d sing some Christian rock songs.” He was right about that—the music was loud. But nothing else about Christ Night was predictable. Curious locals crammed into the church until it was standing room only. Most of them weren’t Christians. They listened to the boys share their stories of coming to faith—dramatic stories of God’s salvation from drugs and sex and alcohol. When Kell did an altar call, nearly 50 people came forward. At a second Christ Night a few months later, about 750 people—more than the population of Berkeley Springs proper—would pack the high school gym. The momentum produced three more Christ Nights over the next few years. “Quite a number of people came to know Christ,” Kell said. “Marriages were reconciled. Sins were confessed. Church attendance spiked.” Families were changed. Businesses were built on Christian principles. And out of that summer came pastors, a missionary, and a military chaplain. “This is a place that might be overlooked or disregarded or forgotten by some people,” said Ricky Love, who’s now planting a church in the community where he was selling drugs 25 years ago. “But it’s a place God cares about.” Party Town Berkeley Springs has always been a party town. In 1747, Thomas Jefferson’s father found the warm mineral springs. The next year, George Washington visited what would be dubbed the country’s first spa. The wealthy began weekending there, and they spent so much time dancing, gambling, and horse racing that one Methodist bishop called it an “overflowing tide of immorality.” After the springs, the town’s most distinctive landmark is a castle built by Samuel Taylor Suit, who made his fortune distilling whiskey. After he died in 1888, the local newspaper reported that boys broke into the castle and stole wine to bring to a dance. Kell and Seville in 2000 / Courtesy of Jason Seville More than 100 years later, the boys of Berkeley Springs were still partying. “As a sophomore and junior, I was drinking most weekends,” Jason Seville said. “I thought it was the best time of my life.” He was earning good grades in school, getting awards for wrestling and football, and juggling girlfriends in two different towns. On the weekends, he, Kell, and others hosted keg parties that could draw hundreds of attendees. Seville remembers talking with friends at a Monday football practice, recounting his weekend of drinking and fooling around with girls. “Hey, Seville,” one of his coaches called, exasperated. “Was that before or after the FCA [Fellowship of Christian Athletes] meeting?” Christian by Process of Elimination Seville was the president of FCA at Berkeley Springs High School. If you asked, he would’ve told you he was a Christian, but that was by process of elimination—he knew he wasn’t a Muslim or a Hindu or an atheist. When his parents sporadically took him to church, he’d sit in the balcony, play tic-tac-toe, and think about girls. When topics like sex or drinking came up in FCA meetings, he and his friends “were more about glorifying those things than submitting [themselves] to God’s Word,” he said. He remembers his FCA leader, Bob Donadieu, weeping at one of those meetings. “He was so brokenhearted, trying to steer it back to what the Bible says,” he said. “And we were telling stories and glorifying it.” When his football coach threw the FCA at him, Seville didn’t have a good comeback. “Deep down, I realized he was absolutely right,” he said. He decided to clean up his life by avoiding alcohol and girls. But he couldn’t do it, so he set a new, lower standard: “I won’t get drunk every weekend.” Seville was struggling even with that when somebody asked if he’d heard about Kell. “Garrett was at college,” Seville said. “Somebody said, ‘Hey, did you know Garrett Kell became a Christian?’ I laughed out loud, because I thought, I’m not a Christian. But that guy is definitely not a Christian.” Kell’s Conversion You could hardly blame Seville for his reaction. After enrolling at Virginia Tech, Kell moved in with three girls and started using cocaine and ecstasy. On Halloween in 1998, Kell invited his high school friend Dave Light, who loved to have a good time, to a party. But this time Light was different. He told Kell he’d become a Christian, that he loved Jesus, and that Jesus loved Kell too. Kell and Light / Courtesy of Garrett Kell “I blew it off,” Kell said. Later, he’d write to Light, “I know you’re just trying to be a good boy and all, but when you came down here and wouldn’t drink, you looked like an idiot. I mean, you were just sitting there with a cork in your mouth. What is wrong with you?” But Light had seemed peaceful in a way Kell couldn’t stop thinking about. Curious, Kell picked up a Bible and randomly opened it. The verses he read—Ezekiel 18:20–32 and Romans 2:4—scared him, so he closed it again. Over Christmas break, Kell felt guilty enough to confess to his sister everything he was doing. “Dude, you’re going to kill someone or die,” she told him. Something had to give. In the middle of the night, Kell called Light. Light came over, carrying his Bible and crying a little. He’d been praying for Kell every day since Halloween. “The Lord began a transforming work in me,” Kell said. He loved to read the Bible, especially with a black light on while he was smoking weed. But when he couldn’t remember anything afterward, he started reading sober. He started going to church. He started showing up at Cru meetings. And he started evangelizing. World’s Least Sensitive Evangelist “I felt like I needed to share the gospel with everyone,” Kell said. For a while, he was perhaps the world’s most enthusiastic and least sensitive evangelist. “We had a drug dealer who brought our cocaine—we called him the ‘white devil,’” he said. “I felt like I should tell him about Jesus. So one night I printed out all the verses on hell in the Bible. I went to his house and nailed them to his door.” When the dealer called a few hours later, scared and angry, Kell’s roommate figured it out. “I bet it’s Garrett,” she told him. “He’s been reading the Bible and he’s losing his mind.” Although the dealer didn’t come to faith, Kell didn’t stop. When he was home for spring break, he invited his buddies over. Expecting a party, they showed up with cases of beer. But when they walked into his house, nobody else was there. Weirder yet, Kell was locking the door behind them. “I sat down and opened the Bible and started reading judgment from Revelation 20:11–15,” Kell said. “I told them they were all going to hell.” Seville tried arguing. “I’m a good person,” he said. “I just blow off steam now and then. God knows my heart, and we’re cool.” “No, idiot, his kindness is meant to lead you to repentance,” said Kell, flipping to Romans 2. “If you don’t repent you are storing up wrath for yourself for the day of judgment.” “Okay, you’re right,” Seville said. “Jesus is real, and I love Jesus. But I’m going to do my thing first and maybe figure out my faith in college.” Kell turned some more pages. “Tonight, your soul may be required of you,” he read from Luke 12:20. Oh, no, Seville thought. He’s read the whole book. Seville didn’t get saved that night, but he’d been confronted with his sin. And by the time school let out, he’d come to know the Lord. “The Lord changed my affections immediately,” he said. At church, he moved from the balcony to the main sanctuary and started paying attention. He drove a few towns over to buy a Bible—one with tabs so he could easily find Matthew or Malachi. He took it with him everywhere, even on the stage at graduation. Some of the other guys were changing too. Summer of 1999 At the beginning of the summer, Kell went to see the pastor at the United Methodist Church his family sometimes attended. “I’ve been using my influence to help a lot of people go to hell,” he told 69-year-old Owen Womack. “I needed to start leading people to heaven.” He laid out his plan: “I’ll throw a kegger at my house. And then, about an hour in, I’ll come down, turn on the lights, stand on the keg, and tell them they’re all going to hell and need Jesus.” “Hmm,” Womack said. “I love your zeal and your creativity. But how about you use the church instead? I’ll give you the keys to the building. You can do anything you want here—but not a kegger. Let’s ask God to do something.” Dave Light, Garrett Kell, Jason Seville, Ricky Love, and Gary Rothstein / Courtesy of Jason Seville So Kell and his friends started fasting and praying. Here’s what a prayer meeting of recently converted teenage hellions looks like: They snuck out of their houses at 2:00 a.m. They drove to church, where they marched around the building seven times, praying God would put up a hedge of protection. In the dark sanctuary, they sat on every seat and prayed for whoever might sit there. Seville remembers Light raising an alarm: “Guys! Guys! Look what I found. It was on a desk that I walked by. It says, ‘Satan.'” It was a Scotch tape dispenser that actually said ‘Satin Tape,’ but “we were on edge and looking to go to war,” Seville said. They prayed over the tape too. South Park Jesus While praying on the dimly lit stage, Kell suddenly pictured the sanctuary full of people, with more standing in the back and more leaning in open windows. He believed it was a vision from the Lord and it gave him a goal: he’d invite everyone in town to church for a revival. “If you asked me now, theologically, I’d say you can’t plan a revival,” Kell said. “But back then I thought revivals were just when people got together and talked about Jesus.” Since Kell was a marketing major, he took charge of the publicity campaign. He named the event “Christ Night” and asked the only graphic designer he knew to create a picture of Jesus conquering the world. The graphic designer, who wasn’t a Christian, used the image of Jesus created by South Park. “We thought it looked awesome,” Seville said. “We ran it in the Morgan Messenger, mailed it to everyone we knew, hand-delivered it to every business in town, and posted it on every bulletin board we could find.” The next week, letters to the editor began appearing in the paper, accusing the boys of blasphemy and sacrilege. Seville didn’t know those words and wondered if they were a good thing or a bad thing. Both, it turned out. The accusations stirred up even more buzz around Christ Night: Were the boys serious or making fun? Did they want to talk about Jesus or throw a party? Everyone wanted to know the answer. When the doors finally opened on July 30, the place filled up. “We had to line the aisles with chairs, people sat on the floor, and the lobby was crammed with people who couldn’t get a seat,” Seville said. “We didn’t have to open up the windows, but it was very close. To date, it’s the highest percentage of non-Christians I’ve ever seen gathered in a church. I think at the time we estimated 80 percent non-Christian attendance.” Christ Night #1 Sixteen-year-old Jonathan Yost was at the church that night. “I’d seen all of those guys at parties,” he said. “I’d seen them messed up. I was looking around the church thinking, Hey, we’re just a bunch of sinners in here.” The programming was a bit of a mess—the message never materialized and the testimonies rambled on too long. But Yost couldn’t tear his attention away. “This was my first real encounter with young people taking a stand for Christ,” he said. “I talked to probably a dozen people who shared the same thought—something fresh was happening. You just knew it from the moment you arrived. God was moving in a new way. Looking back, I know there were people praying for this.” Yost originally went to keep his sister company but ended up gutted by his sin and guilt. He and his sister both became Christians that night. Up in the balcony, high school senior Brian Potter was running the sound system. He didn’t party, but he knew the reputation of the young men on the stage. He could hardly believe the testimony Kell was sharing. “It was a big shock,” he said. “I didn’t know to the extent he’d gotten involved [in sin] once he went to college, and now he’s telling everybody they need to follow Jesus.” Potter was visibly affected enough that Close, who was nearby, offered to take over the sound booth so Potter could respond to the altar call. “I had prayed to accept Christ as a little kid, but I considered that night a rededication,” Potter said. “To this day, that’s the largest altar call I’ve ever seen. I can’t even tell you how many of us went down to the altar.” From the stage, Kell could see “a third of the building had people on their knees, leaning forward, who couldn’t reach us. It was quite a response.” His parents got saved in that season. So did his sister, Seville’s parents, and Seville’s brother, sister, and brother-in-law. All over town, families were coming to faith. “It was a huge game changer,” Seville said. Christ Night #2 Christ Night was so successful that the guys planned a second one over Thanksgiving break. Christ Night Round 2 featured Jesus “the almighty” Christ vs. Satan “the deceiver” in a “fight for your afterlife!” Shelby Abbott and Garrett Kell in 1999 / Courtesy of Shelby Abbott By changing the venue to the high school gym, they could fit a bigger crowd—and they got one. More than 700 people—some driving in from surrounding towns—showed up. One was Shelby Abbott, Kell’s Cru leader at Virginia Tech, who had come to see the revival Kell had been talking about. He knew Kell was a young Christian—in fact, he’d been worrying that Kell’s spiritual growth rate was too fast and he was going to flame out. “Way more people were there than I thought were going to show up,” Abbott said. “At the end, he did an old-school altar call. And I’ll never forget—people got up out of their seats and went up to the front and knelt down to pray to receive Jesus. And Garrett walked around and put his hands on people’s heads and prayed for them. And I was like, What? Is this for real?” Another person asking that question was Ricky Love. He’d grown up rougher than Kell or Seville, exposed to substance abuse and dysfunction. When he was 14, his parents separated. Shortly afterward, he dropped out of school. “For about a decade, I broke bad,” he said. “I went farther and farther into the downward spiral of party life.” Smoking weed progressed into a long line of harder drugs, and taking drugs progressed into selling them. Love can tell stories of guns being pulled, people hit with baseball bats, and multiple fights in one night. As the fun of his lifestyle wore off, he felt increasingly anxious, depressed, and suicidal. Then a friend of his invited him to hear Kell tell his story. “I knew Garrett,” Love said. “We’d done drugs together. I heard he became a Christian and wanted to be a pastor, but I could not see Garrett doing that. I couldn’t figure out why he would change, why he’d stop having parties.” Love showed up at Christ Night 2 in a velour tracksuit and boots, with gold chains around his neck and cocaine in his pocket. “A whole group of us went—we sat at the very farthest top bleacher,” Love said. “I thought the night was corny. I thought the music was dumb. Then Garrett got up and finally, here was something I could relate to. He talked about Romans 2, about not despising the patience and kindness of God, about storing up God’s wrath for the day of judgment. I was like, Oh, yeah. That’s me.” When Kell did the altar call, Love didn’t leave his seat. But he did pray, God, if you’re real, I’d ask you to do the same thing in my life that you did in Garrett’s life. “I felt like I was going to fly out of the room,” Love said. “When we left, my friends were drinking. I didn’t because I didn’t need to. I felt good. I felt happy.” Pastor Ricky Love baptizing a new believer last year / Courtesy of Wellspring Church Within a few months, Love had stopped the drinking, drugs, and sexual immorality. He started going to church, reading his Bible, and studying for his GED. Then he got baptized, went to college, and enrolled at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. In 2019, after a decade of ministry, Love felt called to come home to Berkeley Springs and plant a church. “The first people we baptized were one of my best friends growing up, his mom, and his sister,” he said. Today, his congregation has grown to 50 people, primarily new converts or those who were unchurched. Every November, on the anniversary of Christ Night 2, Love texts Kell and Seville, “Thank you.” Small-Town Revival The momentum of Christ Nights 1 and 2 carried through Christ Nights 3, 4, and 5 over the next few years. “I have no idea how many people got saved through those,” Seville said. “Probably hundreds.” The town changed as drug use dropped and church attendance ballooned, Close said. Sins were confessed. Families were restored. And the FCA leader who’d wept over the sins of his high schoolers watched dozens of them come to Christ. Seville, FCA leader Bob Donadieu, and Kell / Courtesy of Garrett Kell “Because of Christ Night, there was a group of 50 to 60 kids that met every Thursday night to worship and pray,” said Yost, who was the FCA president his junior and senior years. “I had a Bronco, and I’d pack kids in there like sardines to bring them home afterward.” Yost is now a chaplain in the U.S. Air Force in Lynchburg, Virginia, where he’s led thousands of young soldiers through the Alpha Course. Kell is a pastor at Del Ray Baptist Church just outside of Washington, DC. Seville joined him there following six years of pastoring in China. “I’ve never been part of anything like that since,” Kell said. “The guy who lived down the street from my parents used to thank my dad every time he saw him, because his daughters came to know the Lord through that, and it changed their family. . . . It gives me hope that God can swoop in at any time. He can and does move in miraculous ways.” Kell doesn’t plan on hosting any Christ Nights at Del Ray Baptist, but that doesn’t mean he’s not praying for revival. “The Lord did a great work,” he said, “and I pray he’ll do it again.”
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Eldership Reset: Our Leader Failed. How Do We Recover?
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Eldership Reset: Our Leader Failed. How Do We Recover?

When a leader falls, his local church feels the collateral damage. They’re like a crowd standing too close to the curb on a rainy day. The crisis drives by and splashes everyone. It drenches the elders who stood close to the leader, and it sprays shame across the whole community (1 Cor. 12:26). Judgments often follow the embarrassment. Some church members instinctively sympathize with the leaders and staff who remain after a crisis. Others, stung by betrayal, express self-righteous suspicion or angry cynicism: “You hypocrites preach community and accountability, but you clearly don’t practice it!” They see the leaders as fully culpable for sin in areas where accurately assigning blame sometimes requires more time and examination. How does a remaining elder team respond to this rock and hard place? How do they rebuild? I’ve spent years helping churches work through crises, and I’ve encountered an array of complex situations. Some I handled well. In others, I added to the problems. But in God’s providence, failure can be the best tutor. Here are some lessons I’ve learned about how a church’s leadership team can rebuild trust with one another and with the congregation after the crisis. Two Ways Leadership Failure Strains a Church’s Culture Because leadership failure affects everyone in the congregation, it can strain and change the church culture in at least two ways. 1. Strained trust can tempt church leaders to overprofessionalize. When relationships aren’t reliable, elders tend to default to rules. When the organization’s culture feels toxic, we slide toward the safety of professionalism. In these cases, Robert’s Rules can become more important to us than our relationships with one another. We reach for organizational certainty that eliminates the risk of pain or the hassle of relating to imperfect colleagues. Policies aren’t inherently wrong. It’s good for leaders to map power and define accountability. Adopting wise policies for child protection, grievances, and financial controls can protect the staff and congregation from ecclesiastical dysfunction. But policies and procedures should reflect gospel realities, not replace them. Leaders must not rely on rules alone but work together to build, or rebuild, a gospel culture marked by honesty, transparency, humble dissent, and trust. 2. Strained trust can tempt church leaders to isolate. Staff members, and their spouses, may respond to betrayal and deception by withdrawing into family, entertainment, or a ministry silo. For example, an elder afraid of betrayal may stop attending church events unless he’s required to punch the clock. He may be tempted to spend time exclusively with his family and closest friends and to neglect relationships with other elders and staff. When this happens, the vision of modeling God-ordained, mutually upbuilding friendships for the church is lost. The joy of team ministry is also lost as elders, staff members, and their spouses find ways to merely keep hope alive and the ministry afloat. Survival—not resilience—becomes the goal. Leaders must not rely on rules alone but work together to build a gospel culture marked by honesty, transparency, humble dissent, and trust. These two reactions to a leadership failure are common and understandable. But there’s a better way. As I’ve helped churches manage crises, it’s been profoundly encouraging when I’ve seen leaders face serious trials, stress, and temptations with a faith-filled resolve to persevere in relationship with one another. What does building back trust look like? Three Stages of Relational Recovery There are at least three stages a resilient team passes through when they’re working to rebuild trust after a crisis. 1. Recognize your contribution to the failure. Elder team members are certainly casualties of a leadership failure. They’re often victims of a failed leader’s lies or selfish ambition. But to move toward health, elders must be courageous enough to pull off their victim glasses. They must look less at how they were wronged and begin to think about how they enabled the failure. Naming our own problems requires courage. After a crisis, most leaders are so anxious to hit reset that they declare their problems “resolved” and miss opportunities for organizational growth. It may feel good to blame the failure entirely on the fallen comrade (when victims commiserate, it sure feels rewarding), but it’s dangerous for a church to avoid self-examination. When elder teams meet hard questions about their weaknesses with long pauses and little interaction, they’re often putting all the blame on the one who failed most publicly. The narrative is that the innocent leaders were taken advantage of by a gifted con artist. But if this is the lone narrative, they’ll never expose the man-pleasing that can embolden a manipulator; they’ll never address the ecosystem where failures incubate. Worse, this cultural posture can send the message to other team members that if you fail, you’ll be tossed under the bus alone. It’s not true in every case, but over the years, I’ve discovered that where there’s a fallen pastor, there’s often a team around him that greased the rails for his decline. The other elders may be innocent of the fallen pastor’s sins, but they’re guilty of not loving him enough to show care or be honest, of not being courageous enough to correct him and to enforce consequences. Though the fallen leader’s sin may be grievous, public, or even criminal, those facts don’t free us from the work of removing the planks from our own eyes. When we can cite specific ways we were complicit in our brother’s failure and have repented of these by confessing these failures to the church staff (and even the membership), then our path to recovery has begun. 2. Recalibrate the team to giving encouragement and hearing critique. Alexander Strauch calls the eldership “a microcosm of the church.” It’s the team where we model community, humility, and growth. One way to know if a plurality of elders is handling a leadership failure with maturity is to ask if we’re continuing to model the kind of community we want the church to enjoy. Such community involves two key skills. 1. Giving encouragement. The pain of a crisis can bend elders inward and make them self-protective. It’s not right, but it’s human. An elder team models health and maturity when the elders look outside their own needs and begin to encourage one another. If an elder has turned inward, he should ask, “Am I focused more on my own hurt than I am on my responsibility for others? Am I encouraging the other elders’ marriages? Their parenting? Are we as a team affirming the staff? Are we preparing together to affirm church members on Sunday?” 2. Hearing constructive criticism. Another measure of our recovery and spiritual health is how well we receive input from others. This may have been a weakness for the team before the leadership failure. If so, the team should grow its capacity to receive and graciously hear truth through the refining voices of constructive criticism. When writing about approachability, Ken Sande encourages Christians to give one another a passport into their lives. He defines “passport” as the authorization to enter “the inner life and deep struggles of another person.” Such authorization is both something elders give to one another and something we win from one another and the church. As Sande writes, we know we’re approachable when teammates can answer yes to these questions: Can I trust you? Do you really care about me? Can you actually help me? After a leadership failure, cultivating approachability is essential. We need each other. And if I need your help, I’ll want to make sure you feel invited to share feedback. If I want to grow, I must give you the freedom to tell me the truth. 3. Reclaim God’s grace in the past. After owning your contribution to the crisis and recalibrating your team to give encouragement and hear critique, the final stage of a relational reset is reclaiming the past. This is important because there’ll be strong temptations to rewrite the past in a way that scapegoats the fallen leader and thinks of those who remain in light of a we-were-always-wise-and-right narrative. However, reclaiming the past requires a different posture. It requires humility and confession of sin on the part of those who remain (see #1 above) and a willingness to think those who have failed—especially those who have failed then repented—in the best light. It’s what Jared C. Wilson calls “the revisionist history of the gospel.” In the Bible, the flawed and fallen are often remembered for their best moments. I’m always amazed at the names in Hebrews 11’s hall of faith: “By faith Rahab the prostitute . . . . [By faith] Samson . . .” How on earth did they get included? The author of Hebrews remembers them through the lens of grace and faith. Remember that the worst behavior you encounter in Christians isn’t a final statement on who they are. Do you remember the story of Euodia and Syntyche in Philippians 4? They were locked in a selfish conflict, and they wouldn’t resolve it. So Paul—while he was in prison—stepped in and asked his “true companion” to correct them. In the Bible, the flawed and fallen are often remembered for their best moments. When Paul spoke, he remembered their history and refocused their destiny: “Help these women, who have labored side by side with me in the gospel together with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life” (v. 3). In that moment, Paul didn’t look at them through the lens of their sinful stumbling but through other moments when God’s grace shone through. As you meet sin, disappointment, mistakes, and failure in one another—and even as you remember the past of a fallen leader—make sure you allow hope to increasingly form your response. It’s a sign of health and maturity. Are You Ready to Rebuild? Is your elder team ready for a relational reset? It’s hard work, but even as we recognize that any of us could violate trust and hurt the team, we’re called to reopen our hearts and lives to one another. God doesn’t call us to build together to avoid sin but to face it honestly. He doesn’t want us to enable abuse, but he does ask that leaders make themselves vulnerable to being sinned against again. Our vocation is to preach and embody the character of the crucified Savior. He invites us to take up our cross. That will mean coming to terms with disappointments and defections. This call to love is more sacrificial than we can know when we first answer it. But when battered leaders graciously absorb the blows of sin without rebranding themselves as sinless, they grow in resilience. They learn that the story of a fallen leader is no match for the eternal tale of our risen Savior. After being scandalized, they’ll be able to testify that even when sin swept in like a flood, the gospel supplied an ark.
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