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Romantic Drama All of You Merely Flirts With the Science of Soulmates
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Romantic Drama All of You Merely Flirts With the Science of Soulmates
Brett Goldstein and Imogen Poots resist their romantic fates in a movie that’s heavy on the yearning, light on worldbuilding.
By Natalie Zutter
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Published on October 6, 2025
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In the near-future London of William Bridges’ All of You, a new technology called Soul Connex promises love at first sight—that is, via an eye exam that purports to identify one’s soulmate. The test represents a potential crossroads for best mates Laura (Imogen Poots), who’s dying to learn her romantic destiny, and Simon (Brett Goldstein, also co-writer), who would rather be surprised by life’s twists and turns. The fact that they’re mutually pining for one another is a wrinkle that neither acknowledges, though Simon jokes that Soul Connex ruins friendships by elevating these soulmates over every other relationship. When Laura gets matched, they spend the next decade pushing back against this assumption, doggedly determined to remain in each other’s lives as best friends… even once they cross the line into a romantic ticking time bomb that threatens to include partners and children in the blast radius.
With an engaging pace that doesn’t hand-hold as it moves briskly through time, and palpable chemistry and wry humor from its leads, All of You hits all the right notes of darkly funny and quietly devastating meditation on types of love. But despite its speculative premise, this poignant romantic drama doesn’t seem all that enamored of its own science fiction.
Here is where I should cop to the fact that I misunderstood exactly what sort of movie this was. Misreading the logline, I thought that Laura and Simon discovered they were soulmates, then spent a decade fighting against that match—which would make the “Black Mirror x When Harry Met Sally” pitch make sense. Instead, they resist their respective Soul Connex pairings, prioritizing their increasingly complicated bond over supposed scientific data. Yet their defiance is without real consequence; the only people they’re hurting is themselves.
Simon is a different kind of romantic hero for Goldstein, less growly than Roy Kent but still wonderfully acerbic; when he softens for Laura, it’s clear that they are each other’s ride-or-die, each other’s emergency contact, each other’s person. Poots has the greater challenge in keeping Laura (mostly) sympathetic; as the one with a spouse and daughter waiting at home, she has to really sell why she’s railing against the stability and comfort of their love. Her volatility threatens to derail their relationship several times, but Poots manages to balance it with an earned world-weariness of a woman in her late 30s trying to have it all. Their dynamic is written and acted superbly, with layers of history not over-exposited but lending nuance to every conversation.
Their relationship is so wonderfully lived in, but the larger world is not. We never see the soulmate test; we don’t sit in on Laura’s session, and we only know that it involves an eye exam from the many posters crowding Tube stations and stretching as high as London’s skyscrapers. Initially this makes for clever worldbuilding, especially as watching Soul Connex’s numbers rise (from 6 million to 31 million happy matches) helps track the passage of time. But these advertisements quickly fade into the background—perhaps an intentional move, to show how much it becomes part of the fabric of society—removing any urgency to follow up on how it has supposedly reshaped culture. There are only a few intriguing hints: competing billboards from a law firm specializing in “already married but matched with your soulmate?” divorce cases; an anecdote from Simon’s serious girlfriend Andrea (Zawe Ashton) about a polycule in which a pair of soulmates are still romantically involved with other partners. Clearly these happily-ever-afters anticipate or even invite complex juggling of commitments.
But these tantalizing details have little impact on Laura and Simon’s romantic conundrum, even (or especially) once they embark on a years-long affair. They play house in a series of Airbnbs and hotels in dreamy pastoral locations, never in danger of being discovered or witnessed as outright defying Soul Connex’s status quo. Their genre-typical neutral wardrobes slowly give way to brighter colors as they discover these new dimensions to their established dynamic—still in their same nigh-impenetrable bubble, now fortified with the dopamine burst of sex and the evolution from platonic love to romantic love.
What’s interesting is that these two, who constantly remind everyone that they’re so close because they met in uni at the cusp of adulthood, consistently fall back on other chemical reactions—namely, jokes about drinking themselves into blackouts, grooving on party drugs until they need the harder stuff, going out in a blaze of glory. They take turns mocking one another for being “so grown-up” at different milestone markers, with it unclear who envies the other more—the one whose life seems successful yet boring, or chaotic but thrilling.
What seems to be most polarizing about Soul Connex is its stability; some clients crave the assurance of their future, while others are disappointed to have it all figured out. Those couples certainly aren’t having the passionate fights that Laura and Simon are, second-guessing their ability to keep sneaking away or keep putting their lives on hold for one another. Just as at times they seem stuck in time as their uni selves, they also seem to exist perennially in the honeymoon phase, unwilling to take the leap into the eventual monotony that comes to most long-term couples. Or perhaps it’s that Laura is only willing to give so much of herself (saving the rest for her family), and Simon is willing to take those stolen moments as enough.
I admit that I’m biased because my platonic ideal of the speculative soulmates romance is Jac Schaeffer’s (WandaVision) TiMER, in which the eponymous devices are embedded into users’ arms and count down the moments til love—or bafflement, disappointment, resentment—at first sight. Not that I’m trying to unfairly compare the two, but TiMER plays out so many heartbreaking and awkward and lovely scenarios of its nationwide cultural shift, whereas Soul Connex seems to occupy the more niche position of online dating: plenty of people use it, but it’s still not the majority. That said, however, Black Mirror riffed on the highs and lows of online dating with their episode “Hang the DJ,” in which two lovebirds suffer through relationships of varying timeframes in order to find one another across a thousand simulations. Simon and Laura’s affair interludes mimic the insularity and finite timeframe of each simulated tryst, but in “Hang the DJ” every potential match lives in an enclosed space and moves within the same dating pool, as opposed to Laura and Simon carrying on in remote locales where there is no fear of anyone intruding.
In fact, that’s what’s most compelling about this romantic chapter in their dynamic; the decision-making rests solely on their shoulders. It illustrates the fate-versus-free-will dilemma of Soul Connex, but only for the two of them; neither Laura’s husband (her supposed real soulmate) nor Simon’s revolving door of dates get any say. All of You poses challenging questions about relying on science versus pure feelings, but it lets the questions hang unanswered.
Even without a wrist TiMER or a crumbling simulation, All of You does acknowledge that every soulmate story must come up against a ticking clock. Time does eventually run out for Laura and Simon to make a decision about their future, with a bittersweet ending that comes full circle from that first moment at Soul Connex. In some ways, the technology did serve to bring them together, just not in the way that its inventors likely intended. Yet the movie could have better committed to its speculative premise and really played out the scenario on a macro level with the same attention and affection it offered on a micro scale—that is, the ways in which two souls connect, and disconnect, and connect again.[end-mark]
All of You is streaming on AppleTV+
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