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The mastermind behind The Who, Pete Townshend was much more than the band’s guitarist. He helped change the course of Rock and Roll, especially with the albums the band released in the 1960s and 1970s. Alongside Keith Moon, John Entwistle and Roger Daltrey, his chemistry with the group produced some of the greatest music ever recorded, influencing millions of musicians around the world. Having been part of the music business since 1960, Townshend has witnessed many eras of music and guitar playing. Over the decades, he has shared his opinions on many of his peers, including the late legendary Eddie Van Halen. What is Pete Townshend's opinion on Eddie Van Halen Pete Townshend likes Eddie Van Halen's guitar playing and was always impressed with his talent. When the musician sadly passed away in 2020 at the age of 65, The Who's leader called him the "Master Teacher and Guide" of the shredding community. "I was once asked by Michael Jackson to play electric guitar on the 'Thriller' album. I said I couldn’t do it but recommended Eddie, who called and we chatted. He was utterly charming, happy about the connection, but told me how much he was enjoying playing keyboards. His smile was just classic. A man in his rightful place, so happy to be doing what he did." “It’s completely tragic that we have lost him. He was not just an innovative and stylish player with great taste. He was also a laidback virtuoso showman who just blew us all away every time. Every shredder today has lost their Master Teacher and Guide.” Pete Townshend continued: “As he got older he became more generous and amusing and self-effacing about his enormous gifts. He shared so many tricks through guitar workshops, online and on TV shows. Immense talent. The Great American Guitar Player. I was hoping he might be President one day,” Pete Townshend said. A couple of decades before, as mentioned in a Rolling Stone article in 1984, Pete had already praised Eddie's smile and talent. Townshend said that he forgave him for allowing David Lee Roth to stand in front of him during the shows. “That incredible virtuosity combined with that beautiful grin allows me to forgive him for letting David Lee Roth stand in front of him,” he said. As the musician said, Eddie Van Halen ended up playing in Michael Jackson's hit "Beat It" from Thriller, which became the best-selling album of all time. His incredible guitar solo changed the song and gave the final touch it needed to become a classic. Eddie Van Halen could play every note of The Who's "Live at Leeds" The Who's first live album, "Live at Leeds", was released in 1970 and is considered one of the greatest live records of all time. Eddie Van Halen listed in an interview with Guitar Tricks Insider in 2016 some of his favorite albums. The one chosen for the first position was this one, and his former bandmate Michael Anthony told Professor of Rock that the late guitarist could play that album note for note. “When I jammed with Eddie and Alex that first time, they played some of their original stuff,” Anthony explains. “They were going through these time changes, and I’m like, ‘Whoa! What a trip!’ “He could play the whole Live at Leeds album, playing it note for note. It was just as good, if not better than Townshend!” Michael Anthony said. A few days after Eddie's passing, The Who also shared a rare video of Van Halen playing "Won't Get Fooled Again" in the studio with Sammy Hagar in the 1990s. They said: "We can't let today go by without playing this video of Van Halen in the studio playing some 'Oo. Not the best quality but the sound is good. R.I.P. Eddie." Eddie and Pete were quite different guitar players, starting with the fact that guitar solos are rare in The Who’s records, while Eddie Van Halen was one of the masters of guitar soloing. However, Townshend was an inspiration to him, especially as a rhythm guitarist and for his intensity and simplicity. “Pete Townshend was an influence as a rhythm guitarist. It was just the power and intensity, and again, simplicity. You know, nothing was very complicated. Like, listen to ‘My Generation’ (Sings the main riff). Even the later stuff on Who’s Next, it’s all very power-chord based,” Eddie Van Halen told Rolling Stone in 2011. Eddie and Pete Townshend could have recorded something together https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYUKtW8ayhA&list=RDJYUKtW8ayhA&start_radio=1&pp=ygUSdmFuIGhhbGVuIHdvbnQgZ2V0oAcB Although they had the chance to meet each other a couple of times there was never a collaboration between the two guitar players. But Eddie Van Halen almost invited Townshend to be part of some kind of Van Halen record. After David Lee Roth left the band in the mid-80s, they considered doing an album with many special guests, including guitar players. "Actually, my plan at the time, I wouldn't necesarily have called it a solo record because Mike and Al would have played on it, was to get Mike Rutherford (Genesis), Pete Townshend (The Who), Phil Collins, and Joe Cocker, all of whom I had talked to. I had written 'Right Now' back then and I wanted Joe Cocker to sing on it. It would have been f*cking great. That's what I wanted to do, write a record where I did all the music and had a different singer on each song. Logisitically, it would have been a nightmare. People on tour, contractual agreements, companies pissing and moaning and we'd probably only be finishing it now. It would have been fun. Hopefully, in the future I'll still be able to do that," Eddie Van Halen told Guitar World in 1996.The post Pete Townshend’s opinion on Eddie Van Halen appeared first on Rock and Roll Garage.

Those of us who aren't inherently gifted in the socializing department have all experienced the dreaded conversation lull more than once. You're chatting with someone and things are going fine, then suddenly there's an awkward silence. You feel like it's your turn to talk, but you have nothing to say. Your mind races but comes up empty. Running out of conversation topics is a core fear of social anxiety, and unfortunately, that fear gets realized more often than we would hope. But there's hope. Charisma on Command has five tips for never running out of things to say and avoiding the dreaded long pause. - YouTube www.youtube.com 1. Play the "reminds me of" game "That just means that you look to the environment around you and say, 'You know, that reminds me of...' and then fill in the blank," the video explains. "It's great for opening new conversational threads and it can also work as a follow-up when someone finishes telling a story, which is how many groups of friends interact all the time."The one caveat here is to not make your "reminds me of" story some kind of one-up or present it as superior. 2. Ask open-ended questionsAsking questions is always a good way to keep a conversation going, but make sure your questions are as open-ended as possible. That means avoiding framing questions in a way that elicits a one-word answer, like "yes" or "no." It's the difference between saying, "Oh, you're from Toronto. Do you like it there?" and "How do you like Toronto? I'm curious to hear more about it." Same question, basically, but the first one can be answered with one word, whereas the second gets the person talking, which opens up more possible conversation threads. Open-ended questions help keep a conversation flowing.Photo credit: CanvaIt's actually worth practicing changing up the wording of your questions to avoid yes/no answers. A few examples:Have you been here before? vs. What's been the highlight of your evening so far?Did you enjoy that speaker? vs. What was your biggest takeaway from that speech?Do you like your job? vs. What do you like most about your work?Starting a question with "What" often helps avoid the yes/no answers, as does starting with "why." "Just remember the rule that every 3-year-old knows about conversation, which is that simply asking why is a great way to get people to open up more," the video states. "So when someone mentions that they are consultant for instance, you might ask, 'Why did you decide to get into consulting?' To be clear, unlike 3-year-olds, you don't have to say the word 'why' over and over and over. But drilling down into their motivations will often get you a deeper connection in conversation."3. Throw out a non-sequitur"For the worst case scenario, when conversation just flat-out stalls, use revival questions," the video suggests. "These are non-sequiturs that bring conversation back from the dead." You don't have to always stay on topic or relate to what's already been said. Sometimes a lull in a conversation is a good opportunity to shift the topic. A few examples:If you're in a group and the conversation dies: "So how do you guys all know each other?" If you're speaking to one person: "So what's your story?"If you're talking to someone you know, "What are your exciting plans for the future?" Have a few non-sequitur questions on hand to toss out during a silence. Photo credit: Canva4. Make a complimentary cold readThis trick involves making an observation about someone and tying a compliment to it. The video offers these examples:"If someone is particularly smiley, you might say, 'You look like the type who would be great with kids.' Or if they're super strong, you might say, 'You look like you're pretty into fitness.' If you get it right, they're probably going to open up and tell you more about it, but even if you're wrong, you can talk about what it is that gave you that impression in the first place. Either way, you've got new conversational material to work with."5. Flip the scriptWe often feel like it's our fault if the conversation lulls, but every conversation is a two-way street. It doesn't all have to be on you to keep a conversation moving. You don't always have to be the one to keep the conversation going.Photo credit: Canva"Allow the other person to move the conversation forward by getting more comfortable with silence," the video suggests. "Seriously, 30 seconds might feel like a long time, but if you can just take a deep breath while maintaining easy eye contact, more often than not, the other person will make a comment or ask you a question."Another option is mirroring—repeating back the last few words of what the other person said—which invites the person to elaborate on what they were saying. For example, if the person was talking about their job and said, "I write mostly human interest stories that highlight the best of humanity," you might say, "that highlight the best of humanity…" to get them to offer some examples. With these five tricks in your pocket, you may find it a lot easier to keep a conversation flowing. You can follow Charisma on Command on YouTube for more communication tips.

We all love the idea of two polar opposites coming together to balance each other out. But according to experts who study relationships, the most lasting ones share a majority of common ground…at least when it comes to certain aspects of life. Mark Travers, psychologist and CNBC Make It contributor said, “Long-term relationship health depends less on how different two people are and more on what they actually have in common.” Famed relationship expert John Gottman seconded this sentiment, saying that while most couples are “more dissimilar than similar,” that also have “core values they share.”So what do happy couples really share? Travers himself previously listed five. We’ve also added two more, backed by expert research and a bit of good old fashioned real life anecdotes. 1. A shared sense of humor Having a shared sense of humor is important. Photo credit: CanvaTravers notes that the comedy preference doesn’t have to be identical here, but what’s most important is that happy couples are able to “laugh together, regularly” in their everyday life.This turns stress into humor, building a resilient rhythm between both parties. One Redditor put it simply: “Similar doesn’t have to mean the same… [but it’s]important to find someone who gets you and your jokes and vice versa. Also, that you can both find humor in the same situations.” There’s certainly research to back this up. A study published in Motivation & Emotion by Doris G. Bazzini and colleagues found that when couples reminisced about shared laughter, their reported relationship satisfaction increased. Another study found that happy couples tend to assume that their partner’s humor styles are similar to their own. 2. Similar communication styles Research shows that couples who speak the same “emotional language” tend to feel more connected and satisfied.Photo credit: CanvaWhether it’s “let’s talk now” or “give me space then chat,” what matters is being in sync. When partners understand how the other handles “the hard talk,” trust deepens.Research consistently shows that couples who speak the same “emotional language” tend to feel more connected and satisfied. In a study published in the Journal of Family Psychology, researchers found that couples reported being happier during periods when they used less negative communication than usual. Small shifts in tone (choosing empathy over defensiveness, calm over criticism, etc.) had measurable effects on how close partners felt.And yes, science even says that people who naturally match each other’s conversational rhythm are more likely to click. A study from Psychological Science found that couples who “speak in similar styles”—using similar phrasing, pacing, and even filler words—were more romantically compatible overall.3. Aligned social needs Happy couples are usually simpatico about how much social interaction feels right.Photo credit: CanvaNot every couple is made up of two perfectly matched extroverts or two homebodies. But happy couples are usually simpatico about how much social interaction feels right.A 2024 study in Nature Scientific Reports showed that when partners’ “social companionship behaviors” matched (meaning they engaged similarly in social or affective activities) both partners reported more positive behaviors toward each other and higher satisfaction overall.Experts say that shared social preferences create what psychologists call a “shared reality,” which helps provide a shared sense of “meaning.” It also helps prevent “recurring tension,” Travers notes. “There’s no dragging each other along, no passive-aggressive comments, no punishment for needing different things," Travers said. 4. A curiosity about arts, culture, and life Engaging in new and stimulating experiences together helps couples feel closer.Photo credit: CanvaThis doesn’t mean having “identical playlists or favorite authors,” so much as it means both partners are open to exploring together, says Travers.Furthermore, psychologists have long found that engaging in new and stimulating experiences together helps couples feel closer. One landmark study from 2000 found that partners who took part in anything from museum visits to dance classes reported greater relationship satisfaction than those who stuck to routine.Newer research also backs this up. A 2021 study in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health found that participating in arts and cultural activities—like attending concerts, exhibitions, or theater performances—had a measurable positive impact on both interpersonal relationships and overall life satisfaction. It’s almost like art is really, really important for our wellbeing or something…Basically, the couples who stay culturally curious aren’t just enriching their individual lives. They’re enriching their connection.5. Genuine interest in one another An older couple. Photo credit: CanvaThis one might seem like a no-brainer, but it’s also one of the first things couples start to take for granted. When partners remember each other’s newest favorite tea flavor or ask (really ask) about a book they’re reading, it shows genuine curiosity about who their partner is right now. That simple act of paying attention helps keep love alive.A 2024 study in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology found that “feeling known by your partner”—i.e., believing they understand your thoughts, feelings, and experiences—is one of the strongest predictors of long-term relationship satisfaction. Another study on emotional attunement found that couples who accurately perceive each other’s emotions and daily experiences report higher trust, closeness, and overall relationship quality.As psychologist Todd Kashdan puts it: “Being interested is more important in cultivating a relationship and maintaining a relationship than being interesting.”And it’s not just the experts saying this. Real people feel it, too.“It’s absolutely necessary for any person I date to be curious about me as a person. … If they don’t ask me anything, or show interest in me as a person, he doesn’t even get a date.” — u/ChaoticxSerenity, r/AskWomenOver30And here are our two additional contributions… 6. Shared attitudes toward money A couple going over finances. Photo credit: CanvaStudies show that couples who share similar financial values—how they spend, save, and set goals—report higher relationship satisfaction and fewer conflicts. Furthermore, when both partners see money as a way to build security or freedom rather than as a source of stress or status, things flow more easily.Again, real people echo the scientifically backed sentiment. One Reddit user shared, "People who have a partner with a similar financial mindset are so lucky... When it comes to building wealth, choosing a frugal partner may be the single most important factor.” 7. Shared life goals Having shared values is important. Photo credit: CanvaFor many, connecting on heart-level priorities matters more than anything else.“Shared values, sex, and life goals/direction are probably your most important things in determining compatibility in relationships.” — u/TheAnalogKid18, r/AskOldPeopleAnd this makes sense. When both partners align on the big questions, they create a foundation that outlasts the “honeymoon phase.” A study from 2023 found that couples whose life goals and values align show significantly higher relationship satisfaction and stability than those whose goals diverge.Bottom line: “opposites attract” makes for a great rom-com plot, but in real life, it turns out compatibility wins the long game. But even if you do find that you and your partner differ on some things, if you can share a laugh, ask the hard questions, show genuine interest in each other…you’re already doing the important things right.

Design trends come and go. For Gen Z, the color yellow is all the rage. And for Gen X, the wood grain aesthetic (such as wood paneling) was a beloved choice for practically all surfaces in the 1970s and 1980s. From cars to furniture and walls with wood paneling, it's a "look" that defined a generation.But why did wood paneling have such a hold? "Chances are you hate it...or you really hate it," quips YouTuber Llewelyn Moss in a video explaining the wood paneling obsession that took place in the 1970s. - YouTube www.youtube.com He notes that the popularity of wood paneling boiled down to a couple main factors. The first, warm and earth tones were trending (think yellows and greens), which complimented wood grain. But possibly the biggest reason wood paneling was "in" during the 1970s is because it was practical and economical. "For much of the 19th and early 20th century. plaster was the most common material for constructing interior walls," he explains. "But plaster tends to crack and crumble easily and can be unsightly, especially in aging homes. Wood paneling was an easy way to cover these cracks. On top of that, it was often more cost-effective than plaster repair, which charged by the square foot and added up rather quickly." Wood grain, explainedBut what exactly is wood grain? Moss adds that "these beadboard panels were often made of wood fibers, pressed and held together by resin, or of wooden sheets with a thin veneer of oak or other hard wood pressed on top of it."According to preservationists at George Washington's Mount Vernon estate, "Wood graining was a fairly common practice among the gentry in the 18th and 19th centuries. Panels made of a more common wood, like pine, were painted to look like a more expensive wood, such as mahogany. This was done to give the appearance of having spent more money on a particular space."Moss also shared, "As a result, they were as cheap as they were easy to use." And because of this, the wood grain trend became "oversaturated" in American households and "fell way out of favor."Gen X remembers wood grainToday, Gen Xers still have fond memories of wood grain. They reminisced with one another in a Reddit forum."Holy crap. Did everyone have one of those hexagon tables?? That was my parents liquor cabinet ?." - Techchick_Somewhere"I miss my Grand Wagoneer." - Roscoe-is-my-dog"OMG everything was so brown and so HEAVY. That damn couch probably weighs as much as a Mazda Miata. That's why our parents would just cover the broken floor model TV with a tablecloth and sit the new 27-inch TV on top of it. Your uncles all told your dad 'Hell no, I'm not helping you move that thing.'" - Mindless-Employment"I saw an early 90s Buick (I think) wood panel luxury wagon for sale last week and I actually thought about it for like, two whole minutes." - moxiemoon"We put woodgrain on all the things.... And we miss this? YES." - DiscountEven4703"Better than the particle board era we are in now." - I_love_Hobbes"The colonial furniture era. Everything was walnut, oak, pecan, or pine, and it was never finished with anything other than brown stain. It was a revelation when I first saw mahogany furniture finished with red stain." - 25314dmm, SatiesUmbrellaCloset"How about the Atari 2600? Wood grain on a video game console!" - Awake-Now"My parents had a wood grain top loading VHS player." - Flat_6_Theory"Don’t forget the wood paneled walls! My grandparent’s den was faux wood paneled with red carpet. And my aunt and uncle had their basement covered with faux wood paneling as well. All the garages in my neighborhood were covered with faux wood panels but were built in ‘84." - Double_Dimension9948

There's a bit of magic to the idea that the circle of life has a through-line of joyous moments. When you're young, you can't see the days ahead of you, and so the tiniest novelties—like dressing up in a pink dress with tulle and getting copious amounts of candy—are spectacular. When we age, some of us lose sight of that magic. "Been there, done that," we might think. And as we near an end to life, perhaps we don't even get exposed to it anymore.The trend of having children trick-or-treating at senior homes and nursing facilities is ultra inspiring. Such a wonderful opportunity for two age groups to be inspired by one another—an obvious win/win for both the elderly and the kids. @karen.channnnn If you haven't gone trick or treating at a nursing or retirement home you're missing out! This is your sign! #retirement #elderly #Love #oldpeople #halloween On TikTok, Karen Chan Binnings (@karen.channnnn) shared the video of her young daughter clad in a fluffy, bubblegum pink princess dress with a Halloween pumpkin basket. But what makes this trick-or-treating event different is she is in a nursing home. We see her approach the first resident, who notes, "Look at how pretty you are," as she puts candy in her bucket. She continues down the hallways, with Binnings reminding her to say "thank you" when she forgets.Occasionally, she happens upon a caregiver or staff member (who are also at the ready with candy), but it's the senior citizens lined up in chairs (some of them in wheelchairs) that make the exchange the most special. About halfway through the video, we get a montage of the young girl posing with different residents. See on Instagram And while, yes, the candy seems to be her biggest focus, occasionally the camera catches her lock eyes and smile with one of the elderly people. For her, it must feel like 100 grandparents descending all at once with chocolate.Binnings writes, "If you haven't gone trick or treating at a nursing or retirement home, you're missing out! This is your sign!"The comment section seems genuinely moved. Many point out that logistically, doing this at a senior facility should ensure that the candy "will be safe."Another person shares, "The residents look forward to these events so much." Binnings replies, "The residents looked very happy. My daughter was loving the extra attention!" Their conversation continues, with the person explaining their kids grew up in a senior living facility because they worked in one. They add that both the kids and seniors couldn't wait to count down to Halloween. Binnings exclaims "That is adorable and so special! Kids that enjoy spending time with the elderly have a special old soul." KSBY News reports that "Hundreds of kids attended (a) Halloween event at Paso Robles assisted living facility" accompanied by a YouTube video of tiny witches, goblins, and ghosts visiting a senior home for their "trunk or treat" event. This specific celebration also helped support a fundraiser for an upcoming Alzheimer's walk, which raises donations and awareness for the disease. Children attend the Trunk or Treat event at an assisted living facility. www.youtube.com, KSBY News A popular Instagram page, @thesourcela, put up the reminder message: "If you take your children trick-or-treating, please consider taking them by nursing homes. Most of them give out candy, and the residents would love to see the little ones in their costumes. If you can, please stop by and brighten their day. You have no idea how much this means to them."The people agree. One person adds, "Everyone deserves a chance to feel the enjoyment of any celebration."