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You'd likely be hard pressed to find a woman born in the early '80s who hasn't memorized nearly every line from the iconic 1987 movie Dirty Dancing. Many spent hours in front of a mirror practicing every dance Baby had to learn so they could don their flowy dress that gave their spins the perfect amount of realism. An entire generation is transported when those famous words, "Now, I've had the time of my life..." croon over a speaker no matter where they are.In the summer of 2024, a woman from Portugal decided she was going to become Baby for her 40th birthday party—and she was not messing around. The woman, Raquel, uploaded the video to her social media page Miolo Mole e Bitoca.Raquel stands in what appears to be a dance hall decorated to look like the infamous last dance that closes out Dirty Dancing. She's in a pink dress that looks nearly identical to Baby's and that familiar tune starts to play. The camera pans to her partner dressed like Johnny Castle in all black, and, yes, they did the dance step by step. @miolomoleebitoca Meus 40 anos tema Dirty Dancing #dirtydancing #dirtydancingchallenge #patrickswayze A large screen playing the famous scene was set up right behind the pair as they danced. Now, they didn't disclose if they practiced the lift in a lake to stay completely true to the movie, but they nailed it nonetheless. The video currently has 15.7 million views and nearly 80 thousand comments all sharing the same sentiment: utter delight. "Now y'all did that. Man y'all put a smile on my face. Dirty Dancing is my all time favorite movie," someone says."I've never smiled like a Cheshire cat as much as I just did watching that! Proper cheese but I loved it," one person writes."Not me bawling my eyes out and smiling so big, this is everything! One of my all time favorite movies and you can tell you's had so much fun and share so much love for one another," another commenter cries. patrick swayze GIF Giphy There was also a lot of praise for Raquel's dance partner, Wescley."If my next husband doesn't perform dirty dancing lie this with me thenI don't want him. This was amazing," one person gushed.Another said, "the fact that your man would do that for you is amazing. He seemed so happy making you happy."On their TikTok and Instagram pages where they have over one million followers apiece, the couple share adorable videos of their life together. They also do hilarious skits, document events, and post their lovely family. See on Instagram It's wonderful to see so much love, creativity, and beauty exuding from this couple who urge the rest of us to find a partner who makes life a dance and doesn't let anybody put you in a corner! And, by the way, if you're looking to do your own recreation of this iconic dance, here's a fun tutorial: - YouTube youtu.be This article originally appeared last year. It has since been updated.

"Run the dishwasher twice" might sound like strange mental health advice, but a viral post is proving that it's actually quite helpful.Danielle Wunker, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Supervisor, shared a story on her Facebook page that is resonating with people who struggle with mental health issues. It originally came from an answer from Katie Scott on Quora to the question "Has a therapist ever told you something completely unexpected?"It reads:"When I was at one of my lowest (mental) points in life, I couldn't get out of bed some days. I had no energy or motivation and was barely getting by. I had therapy once per week, and on this particular week I didn't have much to 'bring' to the session. He asked how my week was and I really had nothing to say.'What are you struggling with?' he asked. I gestured around me and said 'I dunno man. Life.' Not satisfied with my answer, he said 'No, what exactly are you worried about right now? What feels overwhelming? When you go home after this session, what issue will be staring at you?' A woman is unhappy at a party.via Canva/PhotosI knew the answer, but it was so ridiculous that I didn't want to say it. I wanted to have something more substantial.Something more profound.But I didn't.So I told him, 'Honestly? The dishes. It's stupid, I know, but the more I look at them the more I CAN'T do them because I'll have to scrub them before I put them in the dishwasher, because the dishwasher sucks, and I just can't stand and scrub the dishes.'I felt like an idiot even saying it.What kind of grown ass woman is undone by a stack of dishes? There are people out there with *actual* problems, and I'm whining to my therapist about dishes?But he nodded in understanding and then said:'Run the dishwasher twice.' A woman loading the dishwasher.via Canva/PhotosI began to tell him that you're not supposed to, but he stopped me.'Why the hell aren't you supposed to? If you don't want to scrub the dishes and your dishwasher sucks, run it twice. Run it three times, who cares?! Rules do not exist.'It blew my mind in a way that I don't think I can properly express. That day, I went home and tossed my smelly dishes haphazardly into the dishwasher and ran it three times. I felt like I had conquered a dragon.The next day, I took a shower lying down. A few days later. I folded my laundry and put them wherever the f**k they fit. There were no longer arbitrary rules I had to follow, and it gave me the freedom to make accomplishments again. Now that I'm in a healthier place, I rinse off my dishes and put them in the dishwasher properly. I shower standing up. I sort my laundry.But at a time when living was a struggle instead of a blessing, I learned an incredibly important lesson:There are no rules.Run the dishwasher twice."There are no rules Loading the dishwasher.via Canva/Photos"For me it is not exactly that there are no rules, but I ask myself 'Whose rules are these?' 'Do I want them to be mine or can I come up with better ones?' No rules might work for some folks, but I like a little structure, the structure I supply and can alter if it is not working." Sam wrote in the comments."That is brilliant! Thank you for sharing that profound story. Isn’t it amazing how often we miss the faulty assumption that is stymying us? I’m glad to hear you are in a much better place now," Charlie added.Motivation often follows behaviorThe therapist's advice to the woman follows a psychological principle: motivation often follows behavior. So, when you don't feel motivated to scrape off the dishes, by simply doing part of the act, putting them in the dishwasher, you are promoting your rewards system to create genuine motivation. Simply taking one step can motivate your nervous system to go further or help you rebuild a healthy routine. Anyone who has been in a mental or emotional place where even the most basic, mundane tasks feel overwhelming understands the wisdom of this lesson. Dishes might seem like such a minor detail of life, but those kinds of minor details can be the straw that breaks the camel's back mentally. If you've never stared at a basket of laundry that would take three minutes to fold and thought, "Nope, can't do it. Not now. Maybe not ever..." then you may not need this lesson, but there are millions of people who appreciate the express permission to let go of the rules in our heads about how things have to be done.Adjusting expectations and arbitrary ideas about how something works is incredibly freeing and can provide a seemingly temporary fix for a seemingly insurmountable problem. Oddly enough, that temporary fix can be the bridge that moves someone from being unable to cope with daily life to functioning on a somewhat normal level.Mental health is such a tricky thing to manage, and many of the tools for managing it run counter to what we might expect. That's what therapists are for—to help us step outside the box of our own brains, adjust our thoughts and behaviors to create greater possibilities for ourselves, and give us permission to reject the negative voices in our head try to keep us locked in unhelpful or unhealthy patterns.Even when that unhelpful pattern is as simple as letting the dishes pile up instead of running the dishwasher twice.This article originally appeared four years ago.

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